Why Can't we drink wine/liquor

Probably the only one who noticed you were not having an "adult" drink was you!  Have you ever cared what someone else was drinking?

I gave up all alcohol several  ago because of another medical issue. No one has ever commented on what I was drinking--or not drinking.  If you act like it is  normal, other people won't question it.  If they ever do, just say no thanks, I'm fine. No explanation needed.