Shameful pictures

(deactivated member)
on 4/7/14 6:58 am - Canada

Whomever sent you that note needs to judge their own motives and stop judging you.  You keep rocking your weight loss and be proud of what you have accomplished.  Nobody forced them to look ;)

Dawn ..
on 4/7/14 7:13 am - MI
VSG on 09/23/14

Girl, you are an inspiration. What's shameful about the pictures? I can't wait to be able to wear a bikini. I haven't worn one since I was 14 LOL. Congratulations to you for staying the course and meeting your goal. You look great.


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rj0274
on 4/7/14 7:17 am - TX
Revision on 07/03/13

Over the years I've learned that there is always someone waiting to be offended.  Rock on!

 

pebtash
on 4/7/14 7:19 am
VSG on 11/25/14

HI, I think the person who said this probably shouldn't even be on this site. You look amazing don't listen to the negative. I know how you feel. Although I didn't post any pictures of myself I did have someone say something bad to me once in public. My friend was getting married and she live way out in the country there wasn't many stores around her so she asked me to go to a store that sold prom dresses (since she wasn't having a big wedding) and see if I could find something for her. I think she wore a 10 any way when I walked in the store the women working there met me half way in and told me there wasn't any thing in that store that would fit me. She lost a sale that day. I was speechless and all I could do was walk out. You are a very pretty women and you look wonderful. There used to be a saying: If you have it flaunt it. So don't worry about what some people think.

uglydude
on 4/7/14 7:21 am
On April 7, 2014 at 8:13 AM Pacific Time, tiffanys73 wrote:

I had a woman message me that posting a bathing suit picture is shameful. I in no way want to offend anyone. I posted it to my profile. I want anyone who wants to see the end results of "my" journey to be able too! For 8 years I researched wls and wondered what I would look like...would I need plastics..would I meet my goal...how will my body look and feel after 20 years of obesity!

 

i looked at every before and after picture I could set my eyes on! So to anyone that feels offended I truly didn't intend that. My hope is that people will get the information they are searching for and make the best decision for themselves!

there is no shame in people wearing bathing suits. congrats on your accomplishments :) and I think you look great in a non-creepy way!

theamazingtif
on 4/7/14 7:35 am - Rockwall, TX

Thank you for posting that pic!  I'm definitely one of those who wants to see what our bodies really look like after this process. Your pic gives me hope!!

Laura in Texas
on 4/7/14 7:43 am
RNY on 09/17/08 with

You look wonderful. No reason to apologize. Tell the person if she is offended to block you so she does not have to be offended anymore.

She was out of line. Be proud of yourself and ignore the haters.

Laura in Texas

53 years old; 5'7" tall; HW: 339 (BMI=53); GW: 140 CW: 170 (BMI=27)

RNY: 09-17-08 Dr. Garth Davis

brachioplasty: 12-18-09 Dr. Wainwright; lbl/bl: 06-28-11 Dr. LoMonaco

"May your choices reflect your hopes and not your fears."

Kelly Jean
on 4/7/14 7:59 am
VSG on 04/08/14

All I can say is I'm having my sleeve done tomorrow morning. ... and I can just hope and pray to look that damm  good ... congrats !!! It's an inspiration and gives me something more to strive for!!!

  

tiffanys73
on 4/7/14 2:52 pm

Kellyjean, 

congrats on surgery! You are in my prayers tonight! Hope everything goes smooth and you have a speedy recovery!

    
gdesshill
on 4/7/14 8:10 am
RNY on 01/10/14

For the love of God! What is wrong with people??? I think we need to know who she is so we can all message her the Webster's definition of "shameful". If what she did wasn't shameful, I don't know what is. Hypocrite, much?

Is there somewhere in the "terms of service" that says we can not post our pictures with clothes on? I think I might have missed that. If you choose to be on any public forum, then you will see things you agree with and disagree with. KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT IF YOU DON'T AGREE WITH IT; it's called"courtesy". We should probably send her the definition of that, as well.

Would you walk up to someone at the beach and tell them they are shameful for wearing a bathing suit? You in no way offended 99.9% of the people on OH. People have too much courage online and need to mind their own flippin' business. You look amazing and if I looked like that I would rent a billboard on Interstate 95 with my before and after pictures. Also, realize what goes a round comes a round. I am a true believer in Karmic debt; she'll get hers.

The absolute best to you in your WL journey.

 

Hillary

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