Carmen M’s Posts
Topic: RE: Vegetables? But, why?
Ok, ok... I know why... But can anyone give me any good ideas as to how to consume vegetables post-surgery, when I don't eat vegetables even now? They make me gag. Always have. The only vegetable-like things I can eat are:
tomatoes
carrots
lettuce
cucumber
...and they have to be raw, I can't handle cooked slimy vegetables...
So, any thoughts, tips, ideas???? Please?

Topic: RE: 30 pounds gone! This time for good!
WOW! 30lbs in about a month.
That's absolutely awesome! Congratulations on your triumph, I hope I can do the same with my sleeve, when I get it.


Topic: RE: Police chief of Piedras Negras gunned down...
I think following the previous posts' advice about calling Susan or emailing the Dr. would be our best bet. I'm scheduled with Alvarez for June 1st. My family (7 sisters, 4 brothers) are already giving me a hard time about having my surgery in Mexico, and they ALWAYS watch the news. I can just imagine the crap they're gonna put me through now...
Blah!


Topic: RE: ?? for all VSG post-ops
I've read about a couple of short tempers on here from some VSG'ers and I'm assuming it's due to the extreme and sudden change in eating habits and weight.
Now, remember that pre-surgery alot of us stuff our tempers, sadness, and other bad feelings down our throat
with chasers of chocolate, soda, cake, quizno's subs, chips, ice cream, so on and so forth
and when we can't stuff it down anymore, its gonna come right back up and OUT.
Personally, I think it's better to let it out than stuff it in.
But, maybe people around us are suprised at this new behavior and maybe they will get tired of it real quick, so I'm wondering if exercising for 30 min-1 hr. would help "exorcise" (ha, get it) those temper demons and leave us just too tired to give a sh*t.




today is my day for using as many smiley as I can, lol
Now, remember that pre-surgery alot of us stuff our tempers, sadness, and other bad feelings down our throat

and when we can't stuff it down anymore, its gonna come right back up and OUT.

Personally, I think it's better to let it out than stuff it in.

But, maybe people around us are suprised at this new behavior and maybe they will get tired of it real quick, so I'm wondering if exercising for 30 min-1 hr. would help "exorcise" (ha, get it) those temper demons and leave us just too tired to give a sh*t.





today is my day for using as many smiley as I can, lol


Topic: RE: Gross Question - Sorry TMI
Using a bra day and night definitely helps, you can use a regular good support bra during the day and a soft cup (no wires no "real" support) cotton bra to sleep. also changing from nylon, lycra, or silk underwear to plain old cotton underwear helps too, WAY more breathable.
I haven't had the surgery yet, but after I had my baby i was left with this small hangy flabby apron that sits over my "hooey" and I find that wiping up under the apron with unscented alcohol-free baby wipes everytime I go to the bathroom helps relieve any yuckiness between the skin.

I haven't had the surgery yet, but after I had my baby i was left with this small hangy flabby apron that sits over my "hooey" and I find that wiping up under the apron with unscented alcohol-free baby wipes everytime I go to the bathroom helps relieve any yuckiness between the skin.

Topic: RE: I'm not eating any food tomorrow...
maybe your doc would allow those protein bullets i've been reading about, they are like these li'l 2oz. tubies with liquid protein in different flavors.
at least to make sure ur getting the min amnt of protien, no?
at least to make sure ur getting the min amnt of protien, no?


Topic: RE: Back Home from Surgery, Safe & Sound...
congratulations on such a blessed experience, your angel was defenitely ministering to you, so as we say in Spanish --Gracias a Dios! (Thank God!)
Carmen
Carmen

Topic: RE: Reasons why I need VSG
I HEAR YA, KEEANNA
by Carmen
I hear ya on the
-normal clothes wearing
-leg shaving
-lovemaking
no more
-HBP pill taking
-quality time with kids faking
-toilet seat breaking
-feet, knees, and back aching
time for me to be the new and improved
-feel good making
-heart-breaking
-sexy-ass shaking
ME.
my poem for the day, hehe
by Carmen
I hear ya on the
-normal clothes wearing
-leg shaving
-lovemaking
no more
-HBP pill taking
-quality time with kids faking
-toilet seat breaking
-feet, knees, and back aching
time for me to be the new and improved
-feel good making
-heart-breaking
-sexy-ass shaking
ME.
my poem for the day, hehe

Topic: RE: me and the Domino's delivery guy
GoingMobile, you just really made me laugh out loud
, my 2-yr-old came running from the other room to see what's so funny,... Thank you for that... Your sense of humor really just made my day!
And for all of the posts... Thank you very much, y'all... I'm so glad I found you guys, you make me feel normal instead of like the circus attraction that I look like.

And for all of the posts... Thank you very much, y'all... I'm so glad I found you guys, you make me feel normal instead of like the circus attraction that I look like.

Topic: RE: me and the Domino's delivery guy
How horrible is it that I am browsing through OH in one window and ordering a sandwich from Domino's on-line in another window?
I don't know why, but I feel guilty as sin... My surgery is 6 weeks away, and I don't start my pre-op diet til around May 11th, however, I already feel as if I'm doing something really, really wrong. I'm embarrassed and I feel like the whole neighborhood is watching through their windows and shaking their heads in dismay at the Domino's delivery guy's car at my house...
I mean, I'm a practicing Catholic and I've carried guilt as a part of my life since I was able to understand that feeling, ha-ha... BUT right now, since I've started making my preparations for my surgery; I feel as if I'm being a horrible cheat every time I eat.
Is this normal pre-surgery, or am I just being hyper-sensitive?

I don't know why, but I feel guilty as sin... My surgery is 6 weeks away, and I don't start my pre-op diet til around May 11th, however, I already feel as if I'm doing something really, really wrong. I'm embarrassed and I feel like the whole neighborhood is watching through their windows and shaking their heads in dismay at the Domino's delivery guy's car at my house...

I mean, I'm a practicing Catholic and I've carried guilt as a part of my life since I was able to understand that feeling, ha-ha... BUT right now, since I've started making my preparations for my surgery; I feel as if I'm being a horrible cheat every time I eat.

Is this normal pre-surgery, or am I just being hyper-sensitive?

Topic: RE: well, I wanted a ticker for something too...
I know! I'm so excited, I got ants in my pants!




Topic: RE: dumb question
ok but once i make the ticker, which code do i copy and paste bbcode or html or ???






Topic: RE: Thank Goodness for shoes that hurt
OMG I can't wait to be thin enough to wear heals again. Right now I'm so huge and heavy I can't wear anything but my sneakers and my feet still hurt at the end of the day.
And my husband (like so many men, I gather) LOVES pretty legs and feet and high heels... He couldn't keep his hands of mine long long ago...
:::sigh::: But someday soon... after I get the surgery ... I'll be wearing those hooker heels, and the pretty leather high-heeled boots I've always wanted to wear but never could... and my husband will be ALL over me again
I mean, don't get me wrong, he still tries, bless his heart, but I feel so grotesque, I make it too difficult for him, and aside from that, we are BOTH soooooooo unhealthy it's just more work than enjoyment, LOL
I guess this has nothing to do with ur post but it just got me thinking, sorry...

And my husband (like so many men, I gather) LOVES pretty legs and feet and high heels... He couldn't keep his hands of mine long long ago...

:::sigh::: But someday soon... after I get the surgery ... I'll be wearing those hooker heels, and the pretty leather high-heeled boots I've always wanted to wear but never could... and my husband will be ALL over me again

I mean, don't get me wrong, he still tries, bless his heart, but I feel so grotesque, I make it too difficult for him, and aside from that, we are BOTH soooooooo unhealthy it's just more work than enjoyment, LOL
I guess this has nothing to do with ur post but it just got me thinking, sorry...


Topic: RE: Do you exercise when you are sick?
I'm no expert but I've been told NOT to exercise when I'm sick because it just makes it worse, your immune system is weak and wearing yourself out with exercise simply exacerbates your illness.

Topic: RE: .spirited
ok this is the weirdest post i've read to date... i have absolutely no clue what any of it means... not even the ones who posted after the original post...


Topic: RE: I only told...
Friday afternoon I told the 5 male teachers that I work with about my upcoming VSG on June 1st. I consider them more than just co-workers, they are also my friends. They are very supportive and happy for me. The fact that they are men makes them a little bit less catty and gossipy but, I also told them that I really don't care who knows and who doesnt, because we work with a very large group of male and female guards at a juvenile detention center (guards who will eventually ask or find out anyway).
I told my teachers, "I don't care who knows or who doesn't and I don't care what they think. If they ask you and you want to tell them that's fine, if they ask you and you don't want to tell them, direct them to me." As far as I'm concerned, lying about it, covering it up, or pretending the weight loss and "weird" eating habits aren't happening just takes TOO MUCH ENERGY! I'd rather focus my energy on my God, my family, and my sleeve.
The truth of it (IMHO) is that "the people who'll mind don't matter and the people who matter won't mind."
Now, I'm not knocking anyone's decision to "tell or not tell," just mentioning how I went about it because I think in the long run it's going to save me from alot of drama. I congratulate each and everyone of you sleeve veterans, no matter what, I admire you and am very proud of you ALL!
I told my teachers, "I don't care who knows or who doesn't and I don't care what they think. If they ask you and you want to tell them that's fine, if they ask you and you don't want to tell them, direct them to me." As far as I'm concerned, lying about it, covering it up, or pretending the weight loss and "weird" eating habits aren't happening just takes TOO MUCH ENERGY! I'd rather focus my energy on my God, my family, and my sleeve.
The truth of it (IMHO) is that "the people who'll mind don't matter and the people who matter won't mind."
Now, I'm not knocking anyone's decision to "tell or not tell," just mentioning how I went about it because I think in the long run it's going to save me from alot of drama. I congratulate each and everyone of you sleeve veterans, no matter what, I admire you and am very proud of you ALL!

Topic: RE: Dr's deposit in the mail and passport app on its way!
I'm so excited! I sent Dr. Alvarez's deposit yesterday and today filed my application for my passport. My surgery date will be June 1st. With God's help everything will turn out as it should and soon I'll just be "one of the gang"
and a total and complete LOSER!
Pray for me y'all!
Carmen
P.S. BTW, I start my 21-day pre-op diet on May 11 and then I will REALLY need your prayers
Thanks in advance!


Pray for me y'all!
Carmen
P.S. BTW, I start my 21-day pre-op diet on May 11 and then I will REALLY need your prayers

Thanks in advance!
