thank you tammy and congrats on your weight loss. i do not plan on having wls. my husband is a WLS patient. i signed up on OH because i had some questions for the spouses of some patients. I found out almost a month ago that he had slept with two women from OH that he had met on this site. one of them was almost a 5 month affair. it all happened at the DC convention. i just wanted to know if i was the only person person so far that this had happened to or if it was like a usual thing for people to meet on here and have sex with others that are married.