Dia C.

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sweetglow 21 years, 11 months ago

Sometimes we all feel that way. Sometimes I think I only stay here because my mom could not take it if I were not here. All we can do is ride out the bad times. We pray for each other and may God help us all get through each new day.

BettyBoopVA 21 years, 11 months ago

Dear Dia, I don't have any magic words but I want you to know that you're in my prayers. Being morbidly obese is so terribly difficult and your feelings are almost inevitable. You're a young woman deserving this surgery and your day will be here before you know it. In the meantime, call on God to strengthen you and bless you so that your waiting time will be more bearable. Stay strong for your children and those who love you. It also may not be a bad idea to talk to a doctor about antidepressants. I was on them for a few years pre-op and may go back to them eventually. Big, gentle hugs my dear young sister; please know you're NOT alone. God Bless!

kylakae 21 years, 11 months ago

Dia, I'm sorry you are feeling depressed. I'm sending a big virtual hug and lots of prayers to lift you up! I hope you feel better soon. Love and hugs!

mlwinn77 21 years, 11 months ago

Hi Dia, I read your post and was very concerned. I felt the same way preop and even post op at 2 1/2 months I feel just as bad some days. Believe me I have been there and felt it all. It does get better I promise. If you would like to talk email me at [email protected]. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

georgiacarol 21 years, 11 months ago

Dia, please seek some help. I am concerned about your post on the message board and I care!!!

HelpMeRhonda !! 21 years, 11 months ago

Dear Lord please watch over her.. I know it is easier said but always remember when times get hard or sad get on your knees and cry to the lord. He hear your cries, we are his children and he don't want to see his children suffer, just like you wouldn't want to see your kids suffer.. Jesus Loves you.. I love you.. Keep your head up sister believe me I have been there, and I can only say PRAISE GOD for saving me.. And he can do the same for you LOVE YOU SISTER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Becca K. 21 years, 11 months ago

" I know, O LORD of LOVE and LIGHT, about the need. Touch my heart anew with your DIVINE LOVE and LIGHT that I too may receive and give, sending your healing touch to others in need. I invoke your DIVINE LOVE and LIGHT towards Excellent Health, Loving Relationships, Right Livelihood and Right Alignment with my and soul's purpose. I wish to align myself with ALL THAT IS, my own I AM PRESENCE. I now open myself to receive your gifts and with your DIVINE GUIDANCE I will give to others and give thanks for the SPIRITUAL ABUNDANCE in my Life." SO BE IT, IT IS SO.

~Tooter - the Droopy Witch 22 years ago

While I can understand the logic of your thinking, could it not be true that G-d was testing <b> you </b>. G-d is known for testing our resolve and dedication. I truly find it hard to believe that a loving G-d would lead you to this site and all it has to offer only to tell you this is not for you. Perhaps, the struggle that so many go thru is G-d's way of seeing if we are truly deserving of this wondrous gift. I know and defend the belief that religion is very personal and I wouldn't dream of trying to sway you from your path, except that you posted on a public board and in my mind that is a way of seeking help and perhaps confirmation that you need to not take this so to heart and to try again. Remember that the answer to prayers are not always what we expect and simply because you made a "deal" with G-d, does not mean that <b> He </b> made the same deal with you. My best to you in whatever you decide and may angels always walk with you where-ever you go.

Mary H. 22 years ago

i truely believe that you need to do all you can to obtain this surgery GOD wants us to do our best in what ever we go for ,just to give up i prayed and prayed and it took a year 3 months od dietitery councling a phyc evelation but now i am 82 lbs down and it it wonderful. and i thank god for it everyday. please know that god puts the tools in our path we have to make every effort to make it work , i will add you to my prayers

blank first name B. 22 years, 1 month ago

Hey Dia, Just some words of encouragement. Hang in there!!!! I'm hoping to have surgery as well. *(smile)* Your in my prayers. Pleas keep me posted.