Jennifer, hey girlie, just wanted to wish you lots of luck on your upcoming surgery, I know you'll do great! As far as your daughter, you and your husband may have to sit down and explain that post surgery Mommy will need extra TLC. She will probably try and help take care of you, you'll see. If she feels as though she is helping to take care of you by her actions, she'll be much more understanding. Lots of love and BIG HUGS, Donna in AL