Grace H.

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Cheri P. 22 years, 9 months ago

Dear, dear Grace...Nope..You're NOT giving up. Girl, your body thinks it's gonna starve at 400-700 calories. Take about 4 more bites of protein, walk, walk, walk, and get your liquids in..Your matabolism has to be kept going for you to lose the fat...Your body is like a well oiled machne..it must have fuel to work properly..Believe me..You're not going to gain by upping your calories a little..Wait and SEE !!! Big Huggzzz You WILL reach your goal...: )

kylakae 22 years, 9 months ago

Gracie, I think you're doing awesome! Your expectations are just off! For someone your height and starting weight you are right on target. You have probably got about 100bls to lose and if you think about it you have lost one third of your excess weight. That is fabulous! Please take a look at my profile or someone else whose starting and ending weights are closer to your own, I think it will help a lot! Congrats and keep up the great work!

sammygirlwpc 22 years, 9 months ago

I am about a week behind you with my surgery. I had lost 39 pounds and then gained a few back. It is VERY NORMAL to plateau in the first or second month. Your body is going into starvation mode and storing everything. You may also be experiencing some water retention because of it. I would highly suggest doing some measurements. Even if you didn't do them before surgery, I would suggest doing them still now. Even though the weight is not coming off with me, the inces still are! That gives me hope that this is not a flop. Talk to you doctor and he might be able to give you some suggestions. You are not going to be a failure at this if you are doing everything right! Keep your chin up and know we are all here for you. Whoever says we take the easy way out is on something, because it is not easy. Take it one day at a time and sometimes you just have to wait it out. Congratulations on your weight loss so far!

Cheryl T. 22 years, 9 months ago

You're awesome. Loved your post and you are sooooo right!! Thanks for putting it all into perspective. Have a WONDERFUL day.

Cheri P. 22 years, 9 months ago

Grace.. Thanks so much for your frank, honest post. This surgery IS major trauma on the body and along with the emotions and many physical changes it IS very scary. Not everyone will sail thru so easily but by taking a day at a time, it does get better... Best wishes to everyone...

piperkc 22 years, 11 months ago

Hi Grace Hope you had a safe journey to the other side. Keep us posted "Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, any one can start from now and make a brand new ending." "Each of us has an inner dream that we can unfold if we will just have the courage to admit what it is. And the faith to trust our own admission. The admitting is often very difficult." ~ Julia Cameron "The block of granite which was an obstacle in the pathway of the weak becomes a stepping-stone in the pathway of the strong. That block of granite is often nothing more than a decision." ~ Thomas Carlyle "Being yourself is not remaining what you were, or being satisfied with what you are. It is the point of departure." ~ Sydney Harris I am convinced that attitude is the key to success or failure in almost any of life's endeavors. Your attitude - your perspective, your outlook, how you feel about yourself, how you feel about other people - determines your priorities, your actions, your values. Your attitude determines how you interact with other people and how you interact with yourself. ~ Carolyn Warner It's never too late to be what you might have been. ~ George Eliot May you always have an Angel by your side. Watching out for you in all the things you do. Reminding you to keep believing in brighter days. Have a speedy recovery Angela in Canada Post-op 432 BMI 67.7 -47lbs Dr Michael Grace Open RNY Life began May 16, 2002 I have heard your prayer, I have seen your tears. Surely..I will heal you." 2 Kings 20:5

rhondan 22 years, 11 months ago

Best wishes on your surgery and a very speedy recovery!!! hugs to you

Dea W. 22 years, 11 months ago

Good Luck on your surgery. I pray your surgeon's hands will be strong and true and that your recovery will be fast and comfortable.

charanewme 22 years, 11 months ago

Grace Congratulations you are starting a new chapter in your life to a healthier and thinner you. You are on my thoughts and prayers for a safe and speedy recovery. Charlene

Alice W. 22 years, 11 months ago

Hello Grace~~~Wishing you well tomorrow on your BIG DAY!!! Please keep us posted!