Hey Tammy ... I just read your post about how ignorant some people are ... just remember that YOU can always lose the weight, and THEY'LL still always be ignorant. He's not worth a second thought, so try to focus on more important things (like ANYTHING, ha!). Sounds like you are on your way to lose weight anyway, but don't expect him to even acknowledge it. Sorry to hear about all your challenges, I wish you the best. Please take care. (Congrats on saving your grandmother!)