Rebecca,
Congrats on choosing the best surgeon there is for this surgery. He doesnt just 'do surgery', he gives lives back to people who have lost control. People like me, and hundreds of others just like me, and like you. He's giving you the tools, you have to learn how to use them. KarenT helps with that part:) Remember that there are lots of us 'Frantzidesites' here to guide you through your pre and post op journeys. Use us!! Thats what we're all here for!!
Congrats again, on taking the first step towards regaining your control over your life!
Love,
Kathy aka Dixie;)