Thank you soooooooooo much for all the support, its real hard for me at the momment , my husband is in Korea and wont be here, I do have m y mother and that will most likely be better! hummmmm as you can tell Im a little pissed at the hubby! he really is a good guy, but so different acting over there, hummmmmmmmmmmmm well not going any further! thank you all!