Terri, What you are feeling is exactly how I felt as a preop. I, too, was overweight my entire life. I had a 3 month wait for my consultation and that felt like 3 years! Then it was almost another 3 months before I had my actual surgery. The common experience seems to be the closer you get to your surgery date, the faster time goes. I was so disappointed to get a December surgery date in September. It seemed like years away. After a few weeks, it FLEW by. Now I am a day short of being 4 months postop. The whole journey feels like a blur almost. I can't believe its been almost a year since I got the ball rolling. It is all so worth it. I am down 70 lbs as of yesterday and more than halfway to my goal. If you would like, you can contact me at any time at
[email protected] I'll be happy to coorespond with you, maybe it'll help the time go a bit faster. Good luck to you and be sure to post that surgery date when you get it!!