definingmoment
My story is like many of yours. I was healthy and trim in my young adult years. Suddenly I looked in the mirror and had to admit first to myself, and then to the world, that I am obese. My health had declined over the past ten years and the last two found me with heart arrthymias, knee surgery, sleep apnea, and osteoarthritis! I was miserable and unhappy with myself and I doubt that I was much fun for my family either. After a tough few months in 2009, I made the decision to do whatever it took to get my life back on track. And first on the agenda was dealing with my weight. I started researching weight loss surgery in June of 2009 after years of failed dieting and quick fixes.
I have always discussed decisions with my husband. But opting for lap-band surgery was one that I made on my own, and then informed my family. They were surprised on many levels, but supported me - at first. Then, as the plans solidified, I found my husband wavering and my son doubting. I "stayed the course". For once I was doing what was right for me, and I didn't need permission or approval. I asked for support, but was prepared to go forward regardless. My surgery was on July 19, 2010.
Fast forward to today, five and 1/2 weeks later. I wake up every morning looking forward to what the day brings. I am losing weight slowly, and had my first "fill" last week. Yes, the first few days were a little rough, but so worth the outcome it will bring. Each day I have choices to make, and I try to make good ones. I have not regretted my choice for surgery for one second. My nurse-practitioner asked me to find a support group and join. So, here I am. I have no idea what this website will bring to me, and what I might have to offer you. Regardless, I will trudge forward and hope that it is helpful all the way around.