Sonya,
It is hard to have this surgery with no family support.. been there done that.. but I have to say, AFTER I made it through the surgery with no complications, my family really got better about it and are fine now. No more comments, or arguments. You will make it.. Just hold on to your own convictions, you are taking care of YOU.. for your family and yourself. This is a GOOD THING, not a bad thing. It shows how much you care.
I pray you will have a safe complication free surgery, and a quick pain free recovery.
Good luck!
Tami