I am the mother of three children. I work a full time job. I go to church. I am seperated from my husband whom I see everyday (we coparent). I have a BMI over 50 and hate it. I don't know when I got fat, it sort of snuck up on me, and then I couldn't get it off. I have tried many diets and exercise programs now I am going to have Gastric Bypass and reclaim my life. I want my life back. I want to enjoy normal things and be a normal person.