KMurphy01

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 So it has been a year 3 months and 4 days since I have had my WLS.  I have lost a considerable amount of weight (my beautiful wife Aurora who also had the surgery has too! she is down to 130lbs so very proud of her!.)  However 2 months ago she told me she wanted a divorce she wants to see if there is someone better than me out there for her.  Now I've heard that this happens to couples when one person has had the surgery and the other hasn't that the one that didn't have the surgery gets insure.  But When I spoke to my great Doctor about it he was pretty certain that this wouldn't happen to us.  He said it wouldn't happen because we were going through this journey together and that we would be each others support system.

So here i find myself today sitting in my one bedroom apartment without my beautiful wife and my lovely children wondering what went wrong???  What happened that drove us apart???  And will we ever come back together (I have faith that we will), but I can't help but wonder...

So I got my surgery date... 09/09/09.  I'm here at the hospital getting all my pre-op stuff out of the way.  Well actually I am waiting here at the hopsital trying to get my pre-op stuff out of the way....but it's taking forever!  I'm going to be at work all night tonight because this is taking forever!!!

Well yesterday I had my preliminary visit with my surgeon (Dr. Robert Davis).  He's an awesome guy!  I need to get approval from my cardiologist for the anesthesia, and once I get that meet for the psych and dietary.  Then the approval process will begin.  My wife has her surgery tomorrow.  I am very excited for her, and plan to be there with her every step of the way.  GO BABE!