Wow life Changes sometimes

Jun 02, 2010

6/2/2010--Hello all!  Lots has changed since i had the Surgery on October 14, 2004.  Today i am at a weight of 220 lbs.  I have successful kept off the weight that i had lost initially and the baby weight that i gained from having Noah in September 2006.  I am still 40 lbs over my goal weight, however, i am tired of beating myself up over it.  i have kept off 122 lbs and had a baby too for almost 6 years.  In the meantime I since gotten divorced from my husband that had the surgery almost a year after i did. Gastric Bypass can change people for the good or the bad.  Gastric Bypass can help you see that you may have settled for people,jobs,and painful relationships because you thought you didn't deserve any better than what you had.  We were just happy that we had someone or a paying job even if we were not fulfilled and miserable. my ex-husband did me a favor by cheating. he has released me from a marriage that was not what I needed.  i deserve a devoted father for my kids, and hard worker and a man that adores me.  i am not dating anyone now, but hey, thats ok,  I won;t make the same mistake twice. he has his own lessons to learn.  I also landed a great job with a very large bank in January 2008 and my career is skyrocketing. There is life after Gastic bypass, and sometimes it is great and sometimes it is a little rocky, BUT I WOULD NEVER CHANGE A A THING! 

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