Cori W. 22 years, 7 months ago

Micci...I hope all goes well with surgery and recovery and that both are quick and uneventful. Congratulations and good luck.

cat P. 22 years, 7 months ago

My prayers are with you, for your upcoming surgery. Cat Price

Christina S. 22 years, 7 months ago

Hello Everybody! I'm very happy and honored to say that dear Micci has allowed me to be her Angel! Her surgery date is Jan 23, 2003. The time is coming up quick and I know nerves are starting to set in. At the moment, she is also having a bit of hardship in her personal life, so I would ask that You all offer her your support and prayers to help her through all of this. I know that everything..and I mean EVERYTHING is going to work out for you Hon! Have a merry Christmas and a very safe and Happy New Year Everybody. Love, Chrissy

Christina S. 22 years, 7 months ago

Hey hon! You're time is coming up quickly now, before long it'll be here...things are going very slow for me..setback after setback have assured that my weight loss is going excrutiatingly slow (nothing of course, due to the surgery, just other problems of a physical nature that has kept me from excersizing like I should be). I'll be praying for ya hon and remember you can get in touch with me for anything you need!

meredith L. 22 years, 7 months ago

I wish you luck and best wishes on your big day! We can celebrate our new "birthday" months together from now on!! My open RNY is also in January, 01/13/2003 in Indiana. God bless you and hope you have a speedy recovery and speedy weight loss!

JC C. 22 years, 7 months ago

MICCI - Where ever your head is at, get it back on your shoulders. A man who would walk out on you and your son, is not a man to hang on to. I know you are being bombarded with emotions and people telling you what to do, so I won't waste time trying to tell you what you already know. Stand in front of the mirror and look at that woman staring back, if she doesn't deserve better and you can't take responsibility for your own actions, then know you have more pain on the way. I've been there and done that. I knew what needed to be done and I failed to do it. I am still suffering for having married that man fifteen years after he's been dead and gone. I did deserve better and so did my children. You will get over this and you will have a better, but you have to want that more than you want this poor excuse for a husband. Until you do that, no amount of support from me or anyone else on this board is going to make a difference in your life. Get your surgery and get your life back. You have a son that needs you and a whole world waiting to embrace the woman you can become. We'll all be praying you get through this. Jen

Bernadette H. 22 years, 7 months ago

hI mICCI! Please know that your have support here at AMOS!!! I wish you well in this dificult time! Remember that YOU need to take care of yourself whether with your hubby or not and I think you should still get the surgery!!!! If it is an insurance issue dont worry he will have to keep you on for awhile anyway! I hope that if you and the hubby decide to try that you can get therapy together to address the real issues and grow together!!! Please be true to yourself and respect yourself in all your decisions!!! GOd Bless and email me if you need to [email protected] CARE!!!!

NanciY 22 years, 7 months ago

Micci, I am so sorry. I have been there. You need to go to counseling for YOURSELF. If he comes back, and will go with you, so much the better, but either way, you need to talk to someone who can help you get through this. Why are you cancelling your surgery? I would try anything to get it done now that you have worked so hard to get approved. I understand completely that you feel like crawling into bed and pulling the covers over your head, but trust me, as someone who has been there, try very hard to go on. For your son if not yourself. I am keeping you in my prayers. Nanci

Helenjean P. 22 years, 7 months ago

Micci, I am so sorry! I wish I could help in some way, but I will keep you in my thoughts. I hope things work out in whatever way is best for you and your son.I am in Wisconsin and if I could strangle these 2 idiots for you, I would! If at all possible, make sure you do have your WLS, for you and your little boy. He needs a strong, healthy mommy. We are here for you too, don't forget that.

kylakae 22 years, 7 months ago

Micci, I'm so sorry to hear of your troubles! However, a military man is just plain stupid to pull this kind of stunt. Tell him you'll turn him into his commanding officer and that the military will be glad to withold child support for your. He can get in a lot of trouble for adultery in the military. Perhaps a few threats along those lines will pull him up short. Push back the tears, and get mad, you deserve to be treated better. Don't put up with it! Well, thats my opionion! Hugs!
About Me
Jeffersonville, IN
Location
RNY
Surgery
01/23/2003
Surgery Date
Jun 15, 2002
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