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I am home and feeling better than I thought I would be. I have only taken one pain pill. I slept well last night in my own bed. I haven't really felt hungry at all. I just keep sipping. I am looking forward to adding more variety to my diet next week. The clear liquids are getting quite old. 

I was pretty much a nervous wreck on Monday and Tuesday morning. I think I only slept about 2 hours Monday night. The anethesiologist gave me some versed and I remember getting to the door of the OR, but nothing else. I woke up sometime later in my room. 

They tried to get me up 2 hours after I got to my room, but I got too dizzy so I only stood at the side of the bed. The second try, I was able to walk a little more. Wednesday, they took out my catheter and then late that night, they disconnected my IV and precious pain "button."  

I came home yesterday just before noon. I took a long walk yesterday evening, probably longer than I should have. I was pretty exhausted when I got home.

Several of the ladies from church are providing dinners for us through Monday. I appreciate the fact that Idon't have to worry about Norman trying to feed the kids.

On a final note, I have lost 12 pounds. I was on clear liquids three days prior to the surgery and continue to be on clear liquids unit Tuesday. Right now some milk or cream soups shounds really good.

Meliss

8 Days to Go!!!

I am getting so nervous. I vascillate between sheer terror and excitement. I have been reading everything I can get my hands on related to the surgery. I read autobiographies and informational books. I research the internet and read the forums. I also eat. I have gained 5 pounds. 

My pre-op appointment and nutrition class was last Wednesday. I made Norman go, but I don't think he understood much aobut the post-op diet. The book they gave me with all of my information contradicts itself multiple times. That is terribly frustrating and confusing. I also realize that I may not get the nutritional support that I need form the nutritionist in the office. I know that she is new and has not been with the practice for very long. This only adds to my nervousness.

My parents and siblings have remained unsupportive. My sister said "I have a friend who just lost her sister 5 years after the surgery." Well, I am sorry for her loss. I know there are both short-term and long-term complications. I had my gallbladder out several years ago. I did not put near the thoughts into the surgery that I have this one, but the complications were also possible. My dad actually asked me when my surgery was and asked me to have my husband call them to let them know I was ok.

On another note, I have so much to do over the next week. I hope I can keep focused and get it all done. I want to scrub the house. I know that I won't feel like doing much for a couple of weeks, so I need to clean well now. I also have to finish making arrangement for the kids while I am in the hospital. Amber and Rebekah leave for camp the day of my surgery. I need to arrange for someone to pick them up and take them to the church. I also need to have them completely packed and ready to go. I also need to get their hair trimmed as well as my own. My list could go on and on. I better get busy...

I have been contemplating which doctor to allow to do my surgery. After speaking with a co-worker and the bad experience she has had with a particular surgeon, I settled on Dr. Brown. I called the office last Friday and got an appointment for today. I met with the nutritionist, the nurse practitioner, Dr. Brown, and then the financial/billing director. I walked in not knowing quite what to expect. I walked out scheduled for surgery on my dream date! 

I wish all of my family could be supportive. My mom told me, "you could lose the weight if you just buckled down and did it." My brother told me, "I have known 2 people that died from it." My sister stated, "the surgery is not for me, but good luck." All of the above are in need of a lot of weight loss!

My husband is great. He is so supportive. I called him and told him the date and he said, "OK, I will put in for my vacation time right now." My best friend, Kathy, gave me a hug last Sunday night and church and said "what am I going to do when there is not as much of you to hug!" 

I am so thankful for my dear husband and best friend. I am also thankful for the comfort and direction I get from God, my provider and director of my life.

55 days to go!!!

I finally received a call back from the surgeon's office today. Unfortunately, he only sees patients on Thursdays and Fridays. As luck would have it, I start a new group of students on Thursday for the next 5 weeks. The days are Thursdays and Fridays for 12-hour shifts. So, my appointment is set for May 24th. Boo-Hoo! It seems like such a long time away. On a good note, the office person I spoke with said she has never had my insurance company deny anyone. Yeah! Maybe, just maybe I can still have surgery in late June. My husband is extremely supportive and I think he is also getting excited. My mom is furious with me and is not supportive at all. My kids are very excited and can't wait. They keep telling me things they want me to do with them, like roller skating and bicycling. I can't wait!

I am looking into WLS. I want to have a lap RNY. Now, I am trying to decide which surgeon. It will depend on my insurance's preference mostly, but also the surgeon's professional profile.