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I'm doing great.  I go back to work on Tuesday ( three weeks exactly )...

I had one episode of vomiting and constipation on Monday ( 2 weeks post op) I had been going to the washroom  farirly regularly ... small amounts but I hadn't been eating much , so that is to be expected. I realized on Sunday that I felt like I had to go but couldn't. Took a bit of miralax but it didn't do much. Tried on and off all day monday. Ended up going to a movie with my stepdaughter and drank a fair amount of her iced tea. It was very sugary... I started feeling really sick. I ended up feeling so sick that I had to get her dad to come and switch places with me at the movies .     I went home and crawled into bed... Took some more miralax. Ended up throwing up all night... just bile . I finally was able to get a gravol down and slept the night and woke up feeling much much better.....

The next day I actually had to disimpact myself. It wasn't coming out and I was starting to get diarrhea around the impacted stool. It was horrible. ... bleck. but it did the job and I was able to get on with my day which included shopping on a cross border trip. I/ve added some stool softeners to my selection of pills and vitamins. Sometimes it seems i am taking soooo many. This is what I take

Effexor  once a day, Thyroixine once a day , calcuim twice a day, b12 once a day. multi vite once a day , pantoprozole once a day, vitamine d once a day.  and stool softeners twice a day ( only 100 mg) I would take some iron but I figure it can be constipating and I ain't going there yet... lol

Shopping was fun! I didn't buy that much . I got 2 pairs of XL yoga pants ( one short and one long) from old navy. Not even the XXL ... they are slimming too!

I also picked up a bunch a tank tops at gordmans and a couple shape wear stuff made from fat free dressing . The slimming tank and a pair of shorts to slim.

I spent next to nothing on food on the trip too. $10 over 2 meals of soup at the green mill . Yummy. My sister and friend spent probably around $50... more for clothes later on. I figure I will wear yoga pants mostly as I go down in sizes.

I'm down 28 lbs from my pre op weight ( before the pre op diet)  WOOOHOOOOO 

I posted this and since I am too lazy to re copy .. here it is.

I was tired of waiting so I booked with Trish. ( WLS for better life) and Dr Ponce De Leon. I feel so good about my decision. It was $5500 and included pretty much everything except my flight ( paid $500 for return)

My sister came with me and we landed in San Diego around 1 pm . We were picked up by our driver who met us right by the baggage check. Jonathon kept us entertained the whole ride to Tijuana , It didn't take too long. They have a special lane to get us through - although the lines to get back looked horrible.

We got to the hospital ( INT) and met by Trish. She got us settled into the room and shortly after the cardiologist Dr Leal (?) came by did a history, a ekg and took some blood. He gets the results back in within the hour.

The nurse ( Sonja ) came in and set up an iv. I was so amazed ... she got it right away. I have horrible veins- usually take several attempts.

Dr Ponce came and answered any questions I had. I told him I was concerned with nausea as I usually have it after I come out of surgery in the past.He assured me it would be taken care of and if the first meds don't cut it- they would add something else.

| walked up to the third floor and into the operating room... Lots of people there. One of the drs had to get me to re position and made a comment about me being big... lol.. I said that is why I am there ... he laughed and indicated he meant TALL - I'm 5'10 .... I laughed and it felt good to relax a bit. I was out before I knew it and the surgery was over. I got a video of it and it looked like it took 42 minutes. Was neat and kinda gross to see it on video lol...

I was back in my room soon after and the weirdest issue. I was so hot and sweaty . I actually thought I had wet myself. lol.. my whole gown was soaked. I realized it was sweat when I felt it on my head and neck. I changed gowns and my sister brought me a wet cloth and i felt more human. I think I was walking in about 3-4 hours after the surgery. The goal is 3 hours. It felt fine to walk ....

I didn't sleep much that night - an hour at a time... just couldn't get comfortable since I am normally a side sleeper, and with the incisions and drain I couldn't . The nurses were excellent. They answered the bell so freaking fast - I mean it would take them less then 30 seconds to be in the room helping. Im a nurse and I have NEVER seen that in Canada. lol

They kept on top of the pain and nausea. I did throw up ( dry heaves ) that first night and it wasn't as bad as i expected. Trish was right there patting my back . She is such a wonderful person. She made sure anything we needed was there...

She and my sister ended up going out for dinner. Pizza . My sister said it was really good. The next day she went and grabbed tacos at a little store that she raved about ( right near the hotel)

The cafeteria was pretty cool according to her. Open air and really tasty food, quite inexpensive.

I changed into my own pjs later that first night and again it made me feel better. The gowns are huge and actually give good coverage which is unlike most gowns I've used.

The day after the surgery I walked alot and hung out on the 3 rd floor- they had a nice lounge with comfy chairs and windows that were open - very relaxing. The pain was very light. I could feel the gas moving around and the drain was sore. Actually after I was going on about how well I was feeling - the drain started hurting - figured I was getting cocky. It felt like a cramp. not that bad though....

I ended up throwing up a total of three times. The first time was dry , the second two were bile/blood stuff from the surgery . I was so freaked out prior to throwing up that I was so relieved it wasn't painful . I got to have ice chips on day 2 and they felt so good going down.

Day three ( today) was the best so far. Got up , did my first leak test ( apparently they do 2 in the or as well.) which was the blue dye. I passed ! then I did the contrast dye in front of the xray ( they give you a video of that as well) that drink was a bit nasty . I think I drank it too fast - it was gross lol...I passed that and got to have my iv and drain removed. The drain was a weird feeling but felt so much better being out. It is very quick getting it out.

We packed up - Trish went out and got my perscriptions filled. along with a goodie bag of juice and my cool t-shirt..... Hector came by with the diet instructions and medication instructions. And then we were FREE. Trish got us loaded up and drove us to the hotel ( which is right across from the hospital but a crazy traffic circle) we got checked in to the hotel , which is beautiful. We decided to go out and do some shopping and lunch outside.

Trish took us to a little resturant where my sister had a margarita ( they ended up saying 2 for 1 and gave her two lol) and I had the best broth I've ever tasted! I could only eat about 10 spoons of it though ... What a great tool this sleeve is!

We ended up buying bracelets from a man walking around and selling them ... I got a couple for my step daughters. He twisted them and spelled their names.

We walked around looking and shopping . So much fun. They were filming an italian movie on the street . Felt like so much fun ... like a holiday rather than I just had surgery.... Trish really made this experience fun and cared for us throughout the whole time. We came back to the hotel and rested. The beds felt so comfortable .... later in the evening we ventured out to the taco stand Trish and my sister went to earlier and she grabbed some dinner to go. I ordered my broth from room service- very tasty stuff.... again filled up so soon .

Tomorrow we head to San Diego where we are going to do a little shopping and hanging around since our flights were so early in the morning and we really didn't want to get up THAT early to cross the border.

My experience here was amazing. I can't get over how clean, professional and caring everyone was. I saw my surgeon and other dr's far more than I would ever in canada.

Highly reccommend this amazing team ( I know I sound like an evanglist but it was such a positive experience I want to scream from the roof tops. )

I;m on the loser's bench now and so looking forward to my new more active life!

I met with the surgeon in December and was ok'ed for the surgery. Yay! I also had my appointment with the psychologist as well. That went ok. She wants me to work toward getting rid of the diet pepsi addiction. I've  started mixing it up and using  crystal light and water. It's tough.

I meet with the dietician in march and then hopefully the wait isn't too long to get the actual surgery.

I originally went thought I would go for VSG but found myself leaning towards RNY as I was doing research.  The doctor said either would be excellent choices for me but he would reccommend RNY over VSG. Better long term results. I didn't want to have to deal with acid reflux and like the idea of a more restrictive surgery. If I am doing this - I am doing it all the way!

I also have been doing research on doing the trip to mexico if for some reason this doesn't work out or the wait is just too long. I am very much resolved to have this surgery and take back my life. I really don't have the money to pay for the surgery but if I had to I would finance it. Same thing if I need to get a tummy tuck after - I will look into mexico as well.

I am thinking of starting weight watchers this week to jump start the weight loss. i need to track my food better, my weight loss better.

Well I have been to the group session, met with Dr Vergis. He said I would be good with either VSG or RNY - couldn't make a bad decision. I ended up with RNY. Better long term results, less complications like heartburn ( although I have never had heart burn in my life)

I have a psychologist appointment for january 19 th. I had an appointment with Laura but didn't realize when it was given to me that I was going to be in Antigua for a wedding ( which I am maid of honour) I leave the 20 th and come back the 28 th. Just waiting for an appointment now.  I had my pre op with my gp - I am actually taller then I thought- first thing in the morning I was 5'10 and a 1/4 lol

I haven't told a lot of people . I need to tell my mom and mother in law. I'm not sure either will approve but it doesn't matter- I am DONE with being fat and need to take control of my life and weight. I've been overweight close to 30 years and this is what I need to do. My sisters, my partner, my friends are all supportive. 

I'm excited and nervous to start the next phase of my life. A life where I am much more active and alive