thunderthighsnj
My weight has always been heavier then most people I know. I wasn't the average "fat" kid in school. I was popular....had boyfriends...in my early adult life my weight became out of my control. I dated a man 400 lbs and he had gastric bypass..lost 200lbs. I have seen how much the surgery has changed him and yes he can walk up steps and ride the rides..but he has picked up other habits which are unhealthy..he refuses to attend support groups..but I have been "fat" "obese" but what I considered heathly.. no high blood pressue..and I wasn't your average lazy person..(not saying anyone was but in general) I always have been able to keep up with everyone..and well I was against surgery because I love myself...but realize my children do suffer whether I was in denial. or just now am starting to have health problems. but I need to quiit smoking ..and get a SURGERY Date..