Debbi,
Wanted to let you know I just finished reading your profile. You and your husband have really been through the ringer in 2005, and I will keep you in my thoughts in hoping that 2006 will be a better year. I won't pry into your "getting fired" from your church, but if there is any way for you and your husband to secure your future financially through the court system, I feel that you should try it. If the church has done something to you that is illegal, don't let them get away with it. That only gives them the right to do it to the next person. I'm sure God will let you know how He wants you to handle it. :)
Hope everything works out for you and your husband. If you need to talk sometime, just drop me a line, ok?
~Victoria