Surgery date change

 So got a call today. The surgeon is going to be out of town July 2nd but they had a cancellation so I will be having sleeve on June 25th :) everything moves up a week with liquid diet starting on June 11th 

That's awesome! May seem scary a little but you will do fine!! I like to think the more we wait around, the longer we have to re-think our decision!!

Yay for you!

 I undersnd that. I was talking online to some friends I met in an online group (from a gregnancy forum) and I mentioned surgery. I know I had mentioned it before but I old them I have a date set. About four or five started all saying about negatives, risks (one of the ladies told me her mom did rny urs ago and had complications), about gor I have their support I am doing good on my own (I started c25k a while ago and am finishing week 3, I am repeating each week to try to help).  One mentioned about putting the money (costs $600 For surgery with surgeon fee and hospital fee) towards bills dince she knows we have been struggling..One of the ladies is a cert personal trainer now who before lost 100 lbs on her own and said she will work with me (for free) to come up with meal plans and exercise routine to do it without surgery...

Do that's all weighing on my mind.  I really really want the surgery and feel I need it...  Just trying to express it without being rude or condescending but I can't. I just told them I thought it was the right thing to do for me and i know these ladies are just trying to he helpful (and encouraging that I can do it o my own) but I don't feel I can u know?