Please be kind

Katie B.
on 7/12/13 1:07 pm

I posted something earlier about a mistake I made with my food choice. Of the 4 responses I received, 2 of those people were extremely judgmental. This is a forum for support NOT for someone to break a person down. With this I'm asking, please be supportive to one another. Don't tell someone they need psychological help, or judge the decisions a person has made. This entire process is extremely emotional, full of ups and downs, and we need to build each other up, not down! So please people, be kind!

Citizen Kim
on 7/13/13 12:05 pm, edited 7/13/13 12:11 pm - Castle Rock, CO

RNY on 07/27/04

You don't get to choose how people reply! If you don't want judgement - don't post - it's as simple as that. This is not a support site - it is a business, and as long as a post is not against TOS - it's allowable. The fact that you don't like it, doesn't really matter!

Support is not always about patting your hand and encouraging your questionable behaviour - sometimes it's about keeping it real and that may well be giving you a kick in the ass ...

Welcome to the internet ...

Proud Feminist, Atheist, LGBT friend, and Democratic Socialist

Terri213
on 7/12/13 2:09 pm

RUDE!

Katie B.
on 7/12/13 2:25 pm

Agreed! Unbelievable! Some people are so miserable that they have to be so rude!

BWB
on 7/13/13 7:36 am

RNY on 09/01/11

Catben78,

I am one of the 2 you are accusing of being rude. At this point I don't care if you ate pizza at 3 1/2 weeks and my reply to that was not judgmental but educational. You went into a rage, a tantrum, and a harangue befitting a 14 year old. You cursed those that offered you advice and you called the previous poster a JERK. You continue to attempt to manipulate the forum to excuse your ill manners. You deleted your offensive posts so others would not see you as you are...the truth. Give it up.

juleskar
on 7/20/13 12:31 pm

RNY on 01/11/11

LIKE button!!

H.A.L.A B.
on 7/12/13 11:04 pm

RNY on 05/14/08

It is no it rude - it is real life. There was noting rude in what Kim said. She stated the facts of 'life on internet'.

Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG

"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"

"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."

kitkat88
on 7/13/13 12:09 am - Metairie, LA

RNY on 11/18/13

No its just RUDE. Plain in simple. This is a forum for support, asking questions not to get judged and put down. If I wanted to get judged and put down I would just stick with fam and friends because they are the best at that!!!!

H.A.L.A B.
on 7/13/13 8:21 am

RNY on 05/14/08

This is internet. Reality . not rude. I am sorry your family and friends are rude... I guess reality sucks for you. Hugs.

Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG

"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"

"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."

Maggie May
on 8/16/13 7:36 pm

RNY on 08/21/13

Agreed Kitkat. Welcome to the internet? Wow, nice. And "reality sucks for you?" Rude Rude Rude.

Maggie May

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