HELLO OH FAMILY!!!

It has been a crazy long time since I have been on here but hope  can be on here more.  I guess this is just a little update along with some questions you might be able to answer. 

First off, it's been almost a year since my sleeve surgery (2/6/12)  I started at 270 lbs. and I am now down to 157 lbs.  I guess a 113 lb. loss is pretty good with the exception is that I don't think I did it too healthy.

I was/am hoping to lose more but I don't know when my body will stop.   Have any of you had "indication" when the body finally said stop?

I am looking for way to be really healthy.  I don't eat a darn thing.  I think a lot is that I have ADD and I am on Adderal but I have cut down on it. 

Possibly some of you may remember that my 14 yr. old nephew/godson was killed this past May by a drunk driver while riding his bike.   I think that this has taken a toll on me and my family.  I just can't get out of this funk.  I know I want to be healthy and be there for my kids but getting out of this hell we are in right now is really hard :-( 

It seems like between work and family and all that jazz, I don't have time for me!  When I do, I am so tired I just go to bed.......which brings me to this................

I have been having some "issues" so I had some blood drawn.  My ANA came back at 1:320.  My Dr. has sent me to a specialist and I go next week.  So much of my life makes sense now.  I have been reading a lot and what could be going on and if I could diagnose myself, I would say I may have the beginnings of Lupus amongst a few other things.

I believe between having my second child, Bryce's death and my WL surgery that it has brought it on.

Does anybody have experience with this?

If anything, that you all for listening and being my sounding board!!!!!

Michelle

P.S.  I wanted to show an updated pic of myself but can't figure out how to do it???!!!