Learning how to say no (whiney rant)

nursebonnie
on 12/23/14 12:29 am
VSG on 08/19/14

Take a deep breath. Okay, that was good.

Please don't be resentful, it will just make you miserable. Take everyone's advise, order delivery (Chinese) put out some festive paper plates and enjoy yourself. You love all these people. Forgive them their failures. Take a burden off your mind and remember this is a time of love and peace.

Kick ass after the holidays.

 

    

    

            
happyteacher
on 12/23/14 12:53 am

Much better frame of mind this morning! Thank you for your post-

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sjkduke
on 12/23/14 1:12 am - VA
VSG on 12/18/14

So glad all is working out.  Sounds like you have a good, strong head on your shoulders!  I suffer with Doormat Syndrome as well.  One of my resolutions this year, too!  Happy Holidays!

Sarah

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Tracy D.
on 12/23/14 2:39 am - Papillion, NE
VSG on 05/24/13

Oh no!!!!  I would be extremely pissed off and resentful   Maybe you can all go out to a meal somewhere and everyone can just pay for their own damn meal!  

Get well soon, Happy! 

 Tracy  5'3"     HW: 235  SW: 218  CW: 132    M1: -22  M2: -13  M3: -12  M4: -9  M5: -8   M6: -10   M7: -4

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diane S.
on 12/23/14 3:17 am

sorry for all this.  I can only tell you we had a family dinner in another city and got the entire thing - turkey with all trimmings - at a grocery store deli and it was quite good.  would do that again in a heartbeat.  good luck.   diane


      
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