One week out, husband told nosy/loudmouth neighbor

Sorry to hear this, how very frustrating!   What's done is done now.   Don't take their questions as being nosy,they may just be interested in you.   You'll be losing weight and they will see the results.

I didn't tell anyone at work due to concerns over discrimination, and only told a few close friends and family. I can tell you for sure though that once the big numbers start to come off, people will ask. At work I had 2 people ask me outright, and a gazillion ask about how I was losing and how much. Prepare for this. I also have cancer and made it very clear at work I didn't want to talk about it. I found that a simple, "I don't really want to talk about it" in a gentle voice always worked. Of course, with cancer people usually are either relieved to change the subject or instantly respect that. When I was asked about the weight loss, I had a few phrases that I used-

I am losing weight from a combination of diet, exercise, medicinal/medical interventions. Since the blabblermouth knows already and if they follow up I would revert to the I don't really want to talk about it option. At work if pushed, I would then simply clarify that depending on what time period I look at one factor or the other had a greater influence throughout the months. Of course in my case, the attributed it to cancer many times. That was part of it, but the surgery obviously was a lot of it. It just isn't any of their business and with my bosshole I have to deal with at work, I just can't afford to be very open unfortunately.

Just politely hold your ground and let them know you don't really want to talk about it. If they are rude, then I might be a tad bit snarkier or turn it around and ask them to talk about their weight. 

You know what?  It does not matter.  They would have figured it out anyway.  Eating tiny quantities, shrinking like a chocolate bar in the desert sun they know.  People are not stupid, they know.

It is your business and not theirs but reality is, they KNOW.  I'd rather they talk to me about it vs. behind my back.  Either way they are going to talk.  I'd rather have them on my side.

You should divorce him. It's really the best thing for everyone.

 Missed having your around there for a bit Grim, good to have you back! To other posters that might be newer- stalk this guy. He is hysterical! 

LOL! Grim - you are so funny!

I agree!! How dare she stay married to an honest man!! Liars make the best husbands. 

I know, right?

Lots of things I have never, ever answered honestly. Like, "Does my ass look fat in these pants?" 

Thanks for the kind words, everyone. This whole situation reminds me of when I was pregnant with my children (triplets).  EVERYONE wanted to know how they were conceived. The best response I had was similar to the advice Anita gave me here: asking the person why they ask.

I found then that there were people who were going through infertility and wanted to know about treatment options, and I was willing to tell them everything about my experience, but it also forced those who were merely curious to admit they didn't have a good reason for asking. I suspect the same will be true in this situation.  

I haven't been on this forum much, but I truly appreciate the support and advice here. Thank you. 

I was very open w/ everyone bc ive struggled with it weight issues for sooooo long. I was almost 30 when I had surgery... you will be surprised how many people will support your decision. there will always be the one that has to make the snark remarks. if it were me just be open w/ them IF they ask.