Has anyone gone through a divorce, had surgery and found love again??

I am so worried that I will never find that special someone who loves me for me and not for my newer skinnier,healthier body after surgery.. Has anyone gone through the experience of being married when starting the process gone through a divorce or had a divorce after surgery and found themselves happier with someone new or able to find that new person ??? Just curious.

While I wasn't married, I did go through a break up.  I thought he was the one, so naive of me.  Five years later I'm finally in love with me and have found a REAL man who is the love of my life.  It does happen!!!!!

Yeah I guess I need to learn how to love me first.. it's a work in progress.. Each day I proceed with what I want.. and make another day away from the horrible marriage I feel I am becoming stronger, wiser and learning to love me.. for me.

Jaci pretty much put it as it should.

But I need to say... We need to stop having this unrealistic view of "if he cant love me like I am now , I want nothing to do with them later". I didnt like myself fat and sure as heck didnt expect anyone to like me. Everyone has different tastes in physical traits. I had guys persue me when I was heavy and always turned them down. As I was not attracted to them. As it seemed they were either really big themselves or the skinny twig type. Im not attracted to either. That can be super nice and sweet but I have to be physically attracted to someone too. I like husky built, a little fluff but not excessive. But if the personality that I flow with aint there nope done.

Do not shut out guys that have never given you the time of day while heavy, your limiting your selection big time. 

But learn to love yourself first and stop worrying about finding love. Have fun with dating. As women we need to stop expecting Prince Charming to ride in and sweep us off our feet.