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DebPKansas 22 years, 3 months ago

January 12, 2002 9 months since surgery, wow that is hard to believe. I haven't updated like I should because this has been a struggle for me. Not the surgery, or eating, but losing so much slower than others has been a challenge I had to learn to deal with. When I started this process I had secret hopes of someday weighing 127 pounds, like the charts say I should. I know now that is not realistic for me. I've always been overweight, I'm pearshaped, I have yo yo dieted all my life and I'm 40 years old!! lol Those things contribute to my slow loss and new goal weight. I have lost 101 pounds, that is so amazing to me, and I am very proud of every pound! I will weigh 150 pounds some day and that is just right for me. In the process I have ran the whole gamut of emotions, elation, fear, guilt, depression, embarassment and isolation. I will not play all those head games again. There were times I would avoid putting my date and weight loss with my name in chat because I was afraid of what others would think. NO MORE!!! I have done GREAT, I am so pleased with this surgery and would do it again in a heartbeat. I want to help others who have slow weight loss, who get discouraged seeing others lose phenomenal amounts of weight in half the time it takes us. We are no less successful, and need to remember that! Okay, enough of my soapbox..here's some good stuff..lol. I now weigh 197 pounds..under 200 was a big goal for me. I only weigh in monthly at the gym. I wear size 18 jeans, down from tight 26/28 (actually 30s are more like it). I can move, I can walk really fast, I go up and down stairs without giving them a thought now. I am so much better at my job!!! These are the things I measure as my success! Last but not least a note about Dr. Sifers. I do not see him anymore, I am very proactive in my care. Because I was the last RNY he performed I feel of little importance to him as a patient. I had to cancel my last appt. due to being ill (laryngitis) and asked the office to return my call (twice) to reschedule and I heard nothing. I did however receive a bill for services..of course =). Dr. Sifers is an opponent of RNY surgery and makes our Dr./Patient relationship uneasy at best. Wow, this is a long post..I'm sorry, but wanted to update, thanks to all for asking me to do so. I love you all so much, you are the best!!! I'm proud of everyone we all are big successes!!! ((((hugs)))) and smiles =)))))

jackie E. 22 years, 3 months ago

Deb...Thanks for your words of encouragment. It means alot to me. I am excited and nervous and so so ready...good luck on your journey as well...your doing great...Jackie

Melisa C. 22 years, 3 months ago

Thank you so much for your post it means so much to me. Thank you for your words I will walk in faith and GOD will be with me.^j^ ^j^ ^j^

DebPKansas 22 years, 8 months ago

August 13, 2001 Wow, this is it, Summer Break is coming to an end for me. I have been "off" work since surgery and am going back full time today. I have to fly to Port Arthur, Texas and then Baton Rouge, LA and then school starts, so I am definitely back full time! I know that if I hadn't had this surgery, I would be dreading this time, I have a very physical teaching job and it was getting nearly impossible to perform my duties. I love teaching the special needs kids I work with and am looking forward to this return to school. I have lost over 60 pounds..close to 70 but I don't weigh in with Dr. Sifers until the 22 of August. Going from 298 to 230 is so amazing, my energy level, my outlook on life, so many things have changed but, most of all, I do so cherish the friends I have made here. I am going to miss the "morning coffee club" so very much. Those of you in chat have been there for me everyday, patiently answering questions, listening to me moan and groan about plateaus and sharing my joys and struggles. I love you guys a bunch, thanks, and get up early so I can say hey atcha once in awhile =). Well, I got a plane to catch, take care everyone, bless you all (((hugs))) and smiles =))).

issis 22 years, 10 months ago

Deb, I loved your comment about the seat belt on the plane. That is the reason why I do not fly. Now I can't wait till I get there too...Have a good one/Irene

Rene H. 23 years ago

Deb: I was thinking of you all day yesterday. I know you will do great. My prayers are with you. Congrats on getting to the other side!!!

smedley200 23 years ago

I wanted to send along a thought and a prayer to you today. Good luck, take care of yourself, and I look forward to seeing the after pictures in a few months!! :)

Jean B. 23 years ago

Good Luck Deb! We will now share a re-birthday!

Shelia P. 23 years ago

Deb, my thoughts and prayers are with you for a successful surgery and speedy recovery. May God hold you in the palm of his hand. Shelia

Rita D. 23 years ago

Deb, Congratulations on your upcoming surgery. I hope your surgery and recovery goes smoothly. I look forward to reading your success stories in the future. See you on the other side.