Mixed feelings

Jan 06, 2012

Yesterday at work, one of the men that I know came up to me and said "you have lost quite a bit of weight"...you could tell he wasn't sure if he would offend me, but was very cute about it.  He said I looked great and that I could "do it...just keep my goals in mind" I was a little embarrassed but thrilled with the compliment from a nice looking man...just a friend, mind you!  I really have a hard time accepting compliments...usually reverting to humor or self-depreciation. Then there is also the other hand...when I know the person I am speaking to notices but doesn't say anything.  I am definitely guilty of it in the past...mostly due to jealousy, but it makes me feel weird when they are checking me out but not saying anything.  I am so much more conscious of it now, and will definitely not be doing that anymore.

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