Question:
Does EVERYONE gain back weight ???

I am 11 months out and have been slowing losing. My question...DOes ANYONE ever NOT gain back the weight?    — Kathy S. (posted on September 2, 2004)


September 1, 2004
YES, some keep it off, I personally know a bunch of them! See them occasionally as good friends the longest one is about 6 years out. Look I am 3 years out and float in the 190s. got up to 205 after getting addicted to oreo cookie bars:( One a day was probably ok, but 2 boxes a day? that was insane and that did occur:( Went cold turkey, back to basics, and my weight went back down. Its all in my long winded profile. Each day all of us are challenged, follow some simple rules for success, or eat what we like, and over time gain:( Its a individuals choice. Which one will you be?
   — bob-haller

September 1, 2004
Got down to 160, size 8, then slowloy over a year, back up to 180. I joined T.O.P.S and am now 155 since January and holding. Have to watch yourself!!! Don't take anything for granite.
   — Phiddy B.

September 1, 2004
I'm 3 years out, and although I had a ten pound bounce back which I continue to fight (I go up and down), I still have maintained a 150 pounds loss and wear an 8/10. It takes work though, and careful food choices.
   — mom2jtx3

September 2, 2004
Yes, MOST do. You will have some bounce back weight. How much is up to you. I have had a 13 pound bounce back. In my case it is ok because I was underweight BUT, I struggle to not exceed the 13 pounds. It is definitely work and ultimately, it is up to you. Hope this helps darlin! Hugs.... Erika
   — Egyptianeyesdiva

September 2, 2004
The ones I know that are several years out look great and have maintained their weight loss, thru healthy choices and exercise. I'm 18 months post op and have lost 115 pounds (9 months) and under goal and have maintained this weight for 9+ months. My good health & my maintaining my weight can only be attributed to healthy eating and exercise. Working the tool is the "Key" I journal daily my food/protein/water/exercise and have since day one. Exercise and good eating goes hand in hand with this surgery. To become lax will only promote bad habits and weight regain. This surgery is not the key to one's weight loss. It is an aid. We are the key! It's up to us to insure we remain healthy and keep our weight off. The tool can only do so much! Our surgeons gave us this tool, but it is up to us to work it to the fullest. I for one plan on being a success story 5 years or more from now, as a post op. But, I know to be this...I must remain persistant in my routine as I am now to insure this. I love exercising and eating healthy. It has been the easiest journey for me and I see no reason for things to change now or in the future. Thanks to me seeing a therapist 6 months prior to my surgery.... I "no" longer have the need to abuse food. In fact, food has never been an issue since my surgery. I eat to nourish my body only. Would it not be for this...I never would eat, since I have never experienced hunger, since surgery 18 months ago. Good Luck!
   — Hazel S.

September 2, 2004
Keeping mine off at 2 1/2 yrs post op. Lots of people keep it off... they remember that this is FOR LIFE, not just until we lose to our goal. And getting other issues (behavioral, emotional stuff) treated/taken care of is a big help. Set yourself up to succeed, and it will stay off. Of course, following the rules for life is the best way to use the tool/gift you have been given!<br><br> **It's not a race :) <br><br> Good luck, and good health to you! Shelli K
   — kultgirl

September 2, 2004
I know post ops who have gained weight and those who have maintained are extremely healthy. I also know post ops who are very sick, terrible lab reports, even going to specialists because they say their body will no long absorb nutrients. Im 21 months out and maintaining my weight well--still aways from goal though. I know my body well enough...and that I could easily start gaining weight if I'm not careful about what I eat and dont keep up the exercize. Having WLS doesnt mean we are cured...we just have a tool to work with. I have been critized by other post ops because I wont eat refined sugar, I know I'm just like an alcholic with booze when it comes to sweets. Watching my food intake and exercize will always be a part of my life if I choose to be healthy and I dont ever want to go back to a 5X again.
   — debmi

September 2, 2004
I think only 15% of people gain the weight back. And they are not exercising. Just exercise daily and you'll be fine.
   — mrsmyranow

September 2, 2004
This issue scares me more than any other issue. I'm 25 mos. out now and I'm maintaining very, very well, but it's a daily thing I go through. I know that if I continue to maintain, I'll have to be careful about what I eat and continue to exercise. I guess I'll be successful as long as I can remain diligent doing the things I've done for the last 25 mos.
   — Cathy S.

September 2, 2004
I am 2 years, 2 months post and have been at goal since about the one year mark. I fluctuate about 2 pounds. I eat very normally now (not my old fat person normal, but like a normal thin person), but don't do sugar. I attribute the easy maintenance to WALKING every day. Not every other, or here and there. I walk EVERY day. I also go to the gym for some toning, but believe me it's the walking that works and makes up for a multitude of digressions. Good luck and just stay moving.
   — Mary U.

September 2, 2004
Some will regain, others won't -- and it depends on a lot of different things like: did you have the right surgery for you? Do you exercise daily? Do you get your vitamins and enough protein? Do you get enough water? Are you eating the right types and amounts of food? More importantly, I think we all need to get past this idea that the number of pounds lost is the most important thing-- it's not. Getting to goal is great, staying there is wonderful but it's not the end all, be all of life. Being healthy and living a long happy, healthy life should be the ultimate goal.
   — lizinPA

September 2, 2004
The body is an amazing machine. To compensate for the malabsorbtion and or greatly reduced food intake, one of two things or both can happen. The villa (sp) in the intestines (sort of like teeny fingers)multiply to be able to to "grab" more nutrients and/ or the bypass stretches. I just had a revision and my common channel which was originally 100(5 years ago) was now 175. My surgeon assured me a stretched intestine will not restretch. I hope he is right.That is why diet, exercise and portion control are so important as time goes on. The surgery will get the weight off, then it is up to you to keep it off.
   — Lynne C.

September 2, 2004
In answer to Bobs statement....I will be a LOSER FOR LIFE :) Thanks for all your answers, I work daily at this and will continue to but scared me when I see so many regain seemingly thru no fault of their own...I am loving this though...Hugs to all.
   — Kathy S.

September 3, 2004
There are some who regain thru no fault of their own, but that is not the norm. Most regain because they eat more and relax the pouch rules, stop exercising and are going back to bad habits. And for others they chose a weight that was easy to obtain in year 1 but too difficult to keep up, like those size 2-4-6's. Its still a calories game. You get to eat alot less to maintain a size 2 than you can at a size 10, so choose wisely and it should be easier to maintain. Maintenance can be work, but with our tool and at a much lower weight, making exercise easier, it can be done. To answer your question, lots of post-ops do not gain weight back, but very few can maintain the loss without doing some work. I'm 2 1/2 years post-op, chose to maintain at a size 10, and give myself a 4 pound window. Reach the top of my window, which I do, and I start cutting back on the snacking and upping the exercise and in no time back to the lower end of my window. One of the most valuable lessons learned as a post-op..its much easier to take off 3 pounds than 30!!
   — Cindy R.




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