My son was premature too, but weighed 7 lbs 5 oz at 36 weeks... He's a big boy and I am glad he decided to start walking before Mommy had surgery!

Sorry I wasn't more help. Sherry

Just talk to friends and other people who have gone thru it... today i made another appointment with my counselor to talk about all my feelings the highs and the lows.. really helped to talk aloud about everything.

Good luck to you! My surgery is on Friday the 16th - I am excited too! We are on our way ladies and gents - yaay!!!! I am wishing you all the best and sending good vibes your way! Jenny

Thanks again, unfortunately, if I could afford to pay for the surgery, I would go ahead and be done with it, but because I do not have a few $$$'s in the bank, that is not an option for me. The gentleman in benefits, has been a jewel as far a listening, and I have advised him that any information that I can get to prove my "case', I will bring it to him, however, when a person cannot look you in the eyes when they see you, let' s me know that they have not intention of helping me or changing their plicy. I am not going to give up, I may have to seek employment elsewhere after I investigate their coverage plan. I will hang in there, God is still in the miracle working business.....