Welcome to eastern KS!  I am from western KS (near Leoti if you know where that is!) and moved here in the late 80's.  It's definitely different in this part of the state.  Funny about the connection to special education - I'm a certified school psychologist, but started out as a para a looong time ago!! Sorry to hear about your health issues, but I'm thinking that the lapband surgery might be just the thing to help you to feel better.  I, too, had my surgery in Topeka (Dr. Berntsen).  I attended their monthly Saturday informational meeting first and then went from there.  I also checked out a few surgeons in the KC area, but Tallgrass was closer and as it turns out, about $4000 cheaper.  I was self-pay, so that made a big difference to me.  I was banded on Oct 15 and have had nothing but good luck so far.  No complications whatsoever.  I'm down 50 lbs and exercising so much more than I have ever before.  It gets easier as the weight comes off.  I'm feeling much more energetic. 

You'll find this message board very helpful.  I spend more time on the general Lapband board, but try to keep tabs on the Kansas board too.  Good luck as you make decisions in the future.  There are lots of types of weight loss surgeries and everyone has to find what is right for them. Take care! 

I am glad you are on your way.  It is a long process and I had Aetna insurance too.  I did the RNY through the LiveLite program in Junction City, Kansas, in mid-August.  It is not quite 6 months and I have lost 80 pounds.  I'm thrilled.  I originally thought the lap band was the way to go too but after meeting with the physicians and hearing all the options I also changed my mind to have the RNY.  I believe it was the best decision I could have made and I would do it all again in a heartbeat.  Best of luck to you.