sneakin in

hehe, as you can see i'm not doing so well with my plan.  First night was good except i came on 2 hours early, and we shut off my DH's fish tank, he was *****en cause he had to prime the filter when he got up.  SO that isn't gonna work.  today, i'm on at 9:30, but I'm just checking in.  I just blew all the leaves in my back yard,  I have to do it in 4 sessions, cause I have so many, my blower can't handle them if they are 2 feet deep.  anyway, I'm not likeing my towels and white hanging on the rack,  I love them outside, but seems like they stink and are stiff (yes I used fabric soft, I am sticking them outside next time or infront of wood stove to dry faster.  I need to figure this challenge out.  anyway, I feel great today, havn't lost any weight in a week, Hmmm??  havn't gainned either, so I guess my body just does it the way it wants.  Oh, yea, one more thing, I called my Mom yesterday, SHe isn't doing well after her hemroid surgery, she was moaning and crying and talked non stop for 45 mins.  My sister, said she is going to start drinking if she keeps this up.  (they lives in in-law appt) lol  anyway I guess my parents haven't been eating, cause she can't stand and my dad is pooped trying to take care of her (he is on oxygen), so next week, me and sis are cleaning 1/2 each their small appt. ( it is spotless already) and cooking up a storm for frozen tv dinners for them.  So I have to go over and spend a few hours with my mom.  Please!!!! Pray for me..........  Thank God my Dad is the cuttest little old man who is just a riot.  hey guys, nice chatten, gotta run, more leave to blow...Where's Bob???  oh, and thanks for the "Getting to know you"  it is such entertainment.  Hugs, Cheryl

Cheryl, You and your sister are so good to take care of Mom and Dad. They will appreciate the frozen meals and cleaning.  Prayers are on the way.

Thank you, But, you need to know my Mom, she will be complaining the whole time and telling us we are making it too spicy, or not cleaning right,  EVEN if we are doing it better then we could ever think of, and believe me, my sis and i are far from being dirty.  It makes it so hard  for us to help out.  My sister will have atalk with her tonight, and just say "IF you dont' like it, we won't do it, and you can hire someone, and pay for them, you need to appreciate what we are doing for you... so this shoudl be interesting to see how she makes out....

Sorry to hear mom is having a rough time!  She's so lucky to have you both to help them out!  I agree with your sis that if she doesn't "like" the way you both are doing things, maybe she could hire someone.......lots of people change their minds when faced with that kind of decision (This is my life.......I deal with patients like this ALL the time!!!!!) 

I'll be thinking about you!  Hope it all works out!!!!!   If you get too stressed...stop in!  I'll give you a couple of kids to take your mind off it!!!!!!!  hehehe

haha, I thought you were gonna say I'll give you a couple of bloody mary's...

I'm being punished,  bringing Mom to emergency room in Portland,  with sister. 

Hope everything is ok!  Let us know!!!!!!

Good luck and I hope that she feels better soon

Hope everything is ok

Update: she is impacted, no BM since before surgery 10 days ago, she is screeming in pain, Maine Med in Portland, emergency room is the worst place I have seen, my dog vet's place is better then that. filthy, short staff, my sister and I were elbow deep in **** from 2:30 to 11:30 when they finally wheeled her into her room. NO one helped us.  possible surgery today to UN inpacked her.  OIYYY,