Help! Dating after surgery weirdness

I have been married for 37 years and it wasn't until I was about 10 years post op that my hubby expressed his feelings about obesity. White dove is spot on. Toughen up and have some fun with this new life we have been given. If it was ME I would tell him everything. If he freaks, NEXT 

Trust your gut! God gave us women very good intuition. Doesn't sound like a good idea to me. 

Cut him loose! You've only been dating for 2 weeks, after being single for eight years you deserve somebody that has more depth and compassion.  You worked hard to get where you are so don't settle now.....there will be somebody else that not only gets your juices flowing but that has a soul too.

Best of luck from one single lady to another!

How are you guys doing? Dating can definitely be a bit scary sometimes, especially when you're putting yourself out there and hoping for something real. But honestly, it's absolutely worth it in the end when you meet someone who just gets you. When I first joined Taimi I was full of those same fears -- overthinking everything, wondering if I was making a mistake, and doubting whether anyone would truly connect with me. But after my first two dates, all of that started to fade. I realized that most people are just as nervous and just as hopeful, and that made everything feel so much more natural