What is happening?

DrHollywood
on 7/12/11 10:10 am - Harbor City, CA
yeah....    no ear worm....  whats up with that! lol

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                         "Keeping The Faith!"   "Slim by Summer!"
                                    HW: 250 - SW: 241  - CW: 154.7GW: 140  

     
 1 month: 22 pounds (2162 months: 12.2 pounds (203.8)  3 months: 10.6  (193.2)
 4 months: 9.7  lbs  (183.5)  5 Months:   6  pounds  (177.5 ) 
6 Months: 12 lbs ( 165.5)
 7 Months 7.1 lbs (158.4) 8 Months +1.6 pounds(159.8) 9 Months 2.7 pounds (157.1)
10 Months 8.1 lbs (149) 11 months +2 pounds ( 151) 1 YEAR!!!  2.6 pounds (148.4)


  
                                  Hit "One-derland April 9th, 2011   (199.7)

                                  "Half-Way Goal" April 25th, 2011 (194.8)

                                  "Happyland 80`s" May 14, 2011  (189.6)

                                   "Groovyland 70`s"  June 20th 2011  (179.9)

                                    " HippyDippyland 60's"  July 16th  (169.8)

                                       " CQQL-land 50`s"  August 25th ( 159.8)

                        "Normal BMI"   24.8  October 21st, 2011 (154.5) I am 5`6

                                 "AWESOME-land 40's" Dec 1st 2011  (149)

                              "Century Club 100 Pounds"  Dec 1st 2011  (149)

                                        ' ONE YEAR SURGIVERSARY!!!"

                                           Two Year Surgiversary!!!"


                                                                     

roundater
on 7/12/11 11:41 am - Lincoln, NE
Still trying to grow a fresh crop of worms. Not much success so far. Will keep tryin.

Your friend

Rich
Rich Sonderegger
                
(deactivated member)
on 7/12/11 3:27 am
You know, (little story here) .. when I lost a lot of weight - I was single and just out of a very bad long term relationship. I decided to take a year for me, get healthy and I got myself an antique ring that looked like an engagement ring! I even had a little ceremony by myself and put it on my left hand.. if someone flirted too much I'd just hold my hand up, point & smile. They always got it, and I got a few "lucky guy!" comments! Finished losing the weight.. got settled in my head a bit and decided the time had come to re-enter the dating world.. moved ring to right hand.. started going places where I knew I'd get attention.. The ring is still important to me, since it was my promise to make me healthy again.. as soon as it fits- it's going back on!!

By all means, if you aren't attracted or interested- just sweetly say sorry, I'm not dating right now. or not available.. or if you're having a great time playing, turn it around and say "give me your number instead!" & see how many squirm because they already have a girl at home or something! But.. don't discount it if you meet someone that does interest you, even if you aren't quite ready.. sometimes you run into the right person at the wrong time! Sometimes those meetings start as a great friendship and go to great places later!

I had a lot of lose skin.. some of the people I dated knew me prior to my loss, some didn't- but I can tell you this.. by the time you want to be with one another that way, the skin doesn't matter.. Confidence and passion hides a lot of small body issues, at any size! Some I mentioned it to- many I didn't. It was never a deal breaker, and there were always second dates.. or more :) so it never drove anyone away. 


DrHollywood
on 7/12/11 10:15 am - Harbor City, CA
WOw thank you for your Antique ring story.  That is wonderful!  It actually gave me chills.
I needed to hear about the loose skin part.  your so right, but my head tells me different.
Its really too early to make judgement on myself.  I hear stuff keeps shifting around in the
body even a couple of years out.  I am going to say, " Thank you for your interest, I am not
available right now"  Every time I right it here i feel more condifent. Thank you and thanks
to everyone here that help me feel confident about this decision.  No dating for me right now.
I want to be selfish with me and this sleeve.  I am so easily distracted.  thanks again JO JO!

                      ✿ L♦O♦V♦E ✿ & ✿ P♦E♦A♦C♦E ✿ღ ✿ & F♦R♦I♦E♦N♦D♦S ✿ ღ
                         "Keeping The Faith!"   "Slim by Summer!"
                                    HW: 250 - SW: 241  - CW: 154.7GW: 140  

     
 1 month: 22 pounds (2162 months: 12.2 pounds (203.8)  3 months: 10.6  (193.2)
 4 months: 9.7  lbs  (183.5)  5 Months:   6  pounds  (177.5 ) 
6 Months: 12 lbs ( 165.5)
 7 Months 7.1 lbs (158.4) 8 Months +1.6 pounds(159.8) 9 Months 2.7 pounds (157.1)
10 Months 8.1 lbs (149) 11 months +2 pounds ( 151) 1 YEAR!!!  2.6 pounds (148.4)


  
                                  Hit "One-derland April 9th, 2011   (199.7)

                                  "Half-Way Goal" April 25th, 2011 (194.8)

                                  "Happyland 80`s" May 14, 2011  (189.6)

                                   "Groovyland 70`s"  June 20th 2011  (179.9)

                                    " HippyDippyland 60's"  July 16th  (169.8)

                                       " CQQL-land 50`s"  August 25th ( 159.8)

                        "Normal BMI"   24.8  October 21st, 2011 (154.5) I am 5`6

                                 "AWESOME-land 40's" Dec 1st 2011  (149)

                              "Century Club 100 Pounds"  Dec 1st 2011  (149)

                                        ' ONE YEAR SURGIVERSARY!!!"

                                           Two Year Surgiversary!!!"


                                                                     

Jenijeni
on 7/12/11 3:40 am
God, it's great to be "seen" again. I felt invisible for so long. ...and now YOU'RE Demi Moore and I'M Fairuza Balk! WOOT!!

Turn those men away and send 'em to my house! Although I think DH might get mad...


       

HW: 250 SW: 224 GW: 135 CW: 124

DrHollywood
on 7/12/11 10:16 am - Harbor City, CA
Fairuza Balk   Wasssup Buttercup!!!
Thank youuuuuuuuuuu!  
WOOT WOOt!!!!

                      ✿ L♦O♦V♦E ✿ & ✿ P♦E♦A♦C♦E ✿ღ ✿ & F♦R♦I♦E♦N♦D♦S ✿ ღ
                         "Keeping The Faith!"   "Slim by Summer!"
                                    HW: 250 - SW: 241  - CW: 154.7GW: 140  

     
 1 month: 22 pounds (2162 months: 12.2 pounds (203.8)  3 months: 10.6  (193.2)
 4 months: 9.7  lbs  (183.5)  5 Months:   6  pounds  (177.5 ) 
6 Months: 12 lbs ( 165.5)
 7 Months 7.1 lbs (158.4) 8 Months +1.6 pounds(159.8) 9 Months 2.7 pounds (157.1)
10 Months 8.1 lbs (149) 11 months +2 pounds ( 151) 1 YEAR!!!  2.6 pounds (148.4)


  
                                  Hit "One-derland April 9th, 2011   (199.7)

                                  "Half-Way Goal" April 25th, 2011 (194.8)

                                  "Happyland 80`s" May 14, 2011  (189.6)

                                   "Groovyland 70`s"  June 20th 2011  (179.9)

                                    " HippyDippyland 60's"  July 16th  (169.8)

                                       " CQQL-land 50`s"  August 25th ( 159.8)

                        "Normal BMI"   24.8  October 21st, 2011 (154.5) I am 5`6

                                 "AWESOME-land 40's" Dec 1st 2011  (149)

                              "Century Club 100 Pounds"  Dec 1st 2011  (149)

                                        ' ONE YEAR SURGIVERSARY!!!"

                                           Two Year Surgiversary!!!"


                                                                     

Ms Shell
on 7/12/11 4:44 am - Hawthorne, CA
When they ask you just politely say "My boyfriend or husband wouldn't appreciate me giving out my number, but thank you"

"WLS is only for people who are ready to move past the "diet" mentality" ~Alison Brown
"WLS is not a Do-Over (repeat same mistakes = get a similar outcome.)  It is a Do-BETTER (make lifestyle changes you can continue forever.)" ~ Michele Vicara aka Eggface

DrHollywood
on 7/12/11 10:17 am - Harbor City, CA
That is what I was saying at first and i new it was a lie.
I dont want to lie as I am changing for the better. 

I am going to say:  " Thank you for your interest, but
I am not available." 

                      ✿ L♦O♦V♦E ✿ & ✿ P♦E♦A♦C♦E ✿ღ ✿ & F♦R♦I♦E♦N♦D♦S ✿ ღ
                         "Keeping The Faith!"   "Slim by Summer!"
                                    HW: 250 - SW: 241  - CW: 154.7GW: 140  

     
 1 month: 22 pounds (2162 months: 12.2 pounds (203.8)  3 months: 10.6  (193.2)
 4 months: 9.7  lbs  (183.5)  5 Months:   6  pounds  (177.5 ) 
6 Months: 12 lbs ( 165.5)
 7 Months 7.1 lbs (158.4) 8 Months +1.6 pounds(159.8) 9 Months 2.7 pounds (157.1)
10 Months 8.1 lbs (149) 11 months +2 pounds ( 151) 1 YEAR!!!  2.6 pounds (148.4)


  
                                  Hit "One-derland April 9th, 2011   (199.7)

                                  "Half-Way Goal" April 25th, 2011 (194.8)

                                  "Happyland 80`s" May 14, 2011  (189.6)

                                   "Groovyland 70`s"  June 20th 2011  (179.9)

                                    " HippyDippyland 60's"  July 16th  (169.8)

                                       " CQQL-land 50`s"  August 25th ( 159.8)

                        "Normal BMI"   24.8  October 21st, 2011 (154.5) I am 5`6

                                 "AWESOME-land 40's" Dec 1st 2011  (149)

                              "Century Club 100 Pounds"  Dec 1st 2011  (149)

                                        ' ONE YEAR SURGIVERSARY!!!"

                                           Two Year Surgiversary!!!"


                                                                     

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