I NEED TO VENT ABOUT MY MIL AND DH!!!

Mardi, you can do both of these trips back to back.  You are just getting nervous.  I hope it works out for you the best way.  You will so regret cancelling the Lex trip and I for one will be so disapointed if you don't come.  Please try to calm down.  Many hugs, Loris

Please don't flame me!  I'm trying to give you an honest opinion..  your guy sounds wonderful!  I used to work nights and watch my babies during the day.  I never slept!  I can't tell you how miserable I was.  Imagine having to jerk yourself awake every single time your head starts to fall... during the day  and at night.   Did you see the movie "Bridget Jones, Edge of Reason"?    There's a scene where she's in jail in a foreign country and all her fellow female inmates are complaining about what their boyfriends did to them.. from beating them to prostituting them.  They ask Bridget what her boyfriend did to her and she can't tell them he just didn't stick up for her when she said something stupid. You have a great guy!  Now figure out how to get Mr. Wonderful to Lexington to meet these wonderful people, AND have a good time and get himself some sleep!  Why don't you both fly?

Nothing like the deep freeze treatment and no supper to tuck my hubby's tail between his legs.  Good luck, and don't skip Lexington, if I had to take a Greyhound, I would not skip it if I was you. Passive Aggressive MIL are the worst.

and we go there to see her for thanksgiving and she's coming here for x-mas. we just got home and i'm still pretty ticked off. the appts. were stupid and useless. there were  no drs. there or anything. i had a fresh out of school dietician who just told me to replace my shakes with more high protein food. which i do, as long as i feel good enough to eat. and the male nurse practitoner was nice but all he did was as how i was feeling and told me that they do no blood wor****il the yr. out checkup. and he did prescripe a prescription stool softener and told me i could have a few drinks in lex., if i go. the whole trip was unnessarary. mardi