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         You know I love ya girl!   Big Hugs, Haven

(((((((((((Pinalope))))))))))))))))))))) honey i'm so sorry. I wish there was something i could say or do that would take your pain away. Please know that you'll be in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you are getting some professional help in how to deal with this trauma because it's got to be so difficult. Be Well and know that you are in my prayers, ANDI

oh my dear sweet friend,  I am so saddened and sick to hear this news. I have been little distracted a bit, with our move coming up. I have missed you terribly, reading posts everyday, but I had no idea. Just like other poster said..I am not sure what to say. But big hugs to you, and know I love you, and for what ever happened, it has nothing to do with you....this was a sick person. I wish you healing my friend. I leave for Ohio on Nov 3rd. I promise you this...you said..your not terribly far from Niagra? Well...come this spring...we are going to have us a girls spring fling!!! I wanna give you a big real hug soon!!  Your in my prayers and thoughts...take care of you, and love yourself. Your so worth it!  Hugs,  Sandy

Big , I'm sorry for everything you are going through and no one has the right to nasty if you don't want to share something that has to do with your life. I sent you an email.

Sweetie you don't have to justify your life...good or bad...to anyone! It's none of anyones business.  And to who ever is giving you grief??? GET....A....LIFE! What difference does it make if she tells her personal stuff or not???....it makes NO difference...its HER choice and if you have nothing better to do than harass someone because they don't tell you everything about their life?...well....you need to take a good hard look at yourself because that seems to be a huge problem. Hon, don't let this get you down. You have enough to deal with and no one has the right to call you out on anything. Its your business. As I said to you a couple weeks ago, I'm here for you if you ever need a shoulder because you can always count me in as one of the ones that is concerned and worried about you....a friend! Many ((((((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))))))) to you my friend!! ~hugs~ Konni

L, tears of pain are running down  my cheeks for you.    It's just not enough to have someone punished for this travesty.    All of your hopes and dreams to be violated in such a dastardly way.   For once in my life I truly wish I had some education in counseling so that I might add some words of wisdom.  I hurt for you and W and your boys.     Love forever Tink

Pinalope , I'm sorry that you felt you had to justify yourself . Anyone *****ally cares about you would be concerned , But those who pushed you to reveal what was going on , aren't showing you respect . I too wondered what happened to cause you such obvious trauma , but I figured if you wanted people to know , you'd post it . I'm so sorry . Kathy

Linda,  You were there for me when I was mentally abused by my former employer, understood my pain and gave me a much needed outlet for expressing my feelings. I want you to know that I am there for you in any way that you need me to be, to listen, to cry with, to get pissed off and focused on what options you may or may not have. You just let me know what I can do and I am there. You are the type of person who has earned my respect and admiration for your honesty, strength and compassion. You will get through this difficult time because you must, you deserve to be happy and because you are determined not to let any asshole change your life. You can take back your power and make this mountain move. I am there with you all the way. Love Shar

Oh Pinalope...yes I am concerned and worried about you!  I am so sorry this happened to you, and I do understand because this has happened to me also, however, I was very young! Please take care of yourself and God Bless you!!! Becki

im so sorry to hear this.... unfortinally i know how tramatic it can be... keep ya head up... sending love