Thank you to those who took the time to send your support

I am so very sorry for your loss and the feelings you are having. No one can live your life and tell you what you did was right or not, you have to live in your shoes. I know because I was there 24 years ago, I had medical complications and could not carry a child to term and had to make that very hard decision. Dear, it will get easier in time, no you won't forget it, but it will get easier to deal with. I had two children at the time, going thru a horrible divorce and at the time would have had to stay in bed for 8 months (I was 5 wks along) or lose the baby and possibly my life. I chose to terminate the pregnancy.  I had to, I had children depending on me, I had to work to feed them, at the time it was the right choice for me, as is this one the right for you.  I went on to remarry the most wonderful man in the world (who adopted my two children) and we had a total then of 6 children together. The main thing is to ask God to help you thru this hard time, but you must forgive yourself. God Bless you, I pray you will find some rest thru all this. (((Hugs)))

 ((((((((Pricilla))))))))

My heart goes out to you.  You had a very difficult decision to make.  Being early out from WLS, it would have been hard to have a healthy baby and it would have not been healthy for you either.  With your marital situation, being bad as well.  I think you made a wise decision.  I know your decision did not come easily or without a lot of thought and heartache.  Prayers are with you as you grieve your loss.  

Hugs.  I feel for you.  It had to be hard to make that choice and it is an individual one given the cir****tances I know I would have had a hard time making that choice in your shoes.  Rest and take care of yourself.

My prayers are with you. Make sure you take care of yourself in every way, physically, emotionally and spiritually.

Be good to yourself, sweetie. My thoughts are with you.

I am so sorry, you have my sympathy.

Hugs Heidi

It sounds to me that, given the cir****tances, you DID the right thing to do.  At this early stage post WLS, the baby would be lucky to survive, and would likely suffer if it did.  And considering your personal situation, things would have been very difficult for you and all children involved if you had made another choice.

Nobody has an abortion without a heavy heart, so I'm sure your decision was a very difficult one.  It's normal to be sad, but also be strong, and know that you made the right decision for you.  I'm not one to pray, but I'll send positive vibes and energy your way, and you'll be in my thoughts.

Amy K

What a difficult cir****tance to be in. Deciding to terminate a pregnancy is rarely an easy decision. It sounds like you made the best decision for you. Give yourself time to grieve and time to heal.

I, too, am not one to pray, Instead I will send you healing thoughts.

SherryB

I am so sorry. It sounds like you thought about it a lot and made the right decision. I will send you healing thoughts!

my heart breaks for you.  much love sent your way.