My Father passed away and I am at fault

Katt M.
on 6/20/09 7:31 am - Fontana, CA
Belen, I am so sorry about the accident and the loss of your father. You and your family are in my thoughts. Sending big hugs to you and your family.

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Jean L.
on 6/20/09 11:20 pm - Seal Beach, CA
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Oh Belen - I am so sorry to hear of your loss...I can't say any more than the others have said..it is not your fault.  Just find comfort in knowing that you got to spend time with your dad before he went on to a better place.  Take care of you and know that your dad is always watching over you...God bless you.....
Jean    
                                                                   
                           
                        
                                 
mzdivine
on 6/21/09 1:59 am - Long Beach, CA
BE,

I will be praying for you and the family.  Sometimes, we don't understand why things happen the way they do, but know that God loves you and he will get your through this trial. 

Your friend,



                                       We are more than Conquerors, Romans 8:37

Shopgrl714
on 6/21/09 2:42 am - Anaheim, CA
Belen,

I want to first let you know that I am so sorry for your loss. I want to tell you, that you are NOT responsible for the death of your father. Things happen for many reasons and we may not be able to understand why and you may never ever understand. You are just going through the a traumatic loss right now! Seeing you alive from a horrific car accident is not what made your dad pass away. Your sisters are still in shock, too! What you don't understand is that, they see you as a miracle.  They not only have lost their father, but they almost lost you! I truly don't believe that they blame you! You must know in your heart that they love you with all their hearts and they are eternally grateful that nothing happen to you!!

This grieving process will take time, but with each day it will get a little easier!!

Just remember God  works in mysterious ways!!

Julie
LittleMichele
on 6/21/09 11:56 pm - San Dimas, CA
First I would like to send my deepest condolences on the loss of your father and I am happy you are okay from your accident.  As everyone has said it is not your fault at all of the passing of your father. 

Take care of yourself and you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Big Hugs!!!

Michele
  Michele
anewbecboo
on 6/22/09 6:17 am - Ellensburg, WA

Like everyone else said, this is NOT your fault!!!!  I'm sorry you are having to go through this after your own VERY scary ordeal! I'm thankful you are alright and you will be in my prayers honey!!!  hang in there and trust God!!!   bigg huggs, Becky


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plan2behealthy
on 6/22/09 4:14 pm - Long Beach, CA
I am so sorry for you loss.  You are not at fault.  Your sisters are also mourning the only way they know how.  Please try not to read into something that may not be there.  This is a tragedy and I will keep you and your family in my prayers. 



Linda
 
2mch4em
on 6/23/09 3:50 am - Hollysprings, NC
I am so sorry for your loss! Pray for understanding and peace.
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newbarb2
on 6/23/09 8:44 am
Belen,

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your Dad.  Please do not blame yourself of think this was your fault.  We are all here for you with warm thoughts and prayers.

Hugs,
Barb
 
    
LessOfKim
on 6/23/09 8:51 am
That is very sad about your father and I am sorry for you.  But you are no more responsible for his death than the road you were driving on, the vehicle you were in, or anything else that led to this unfortunate chain of events.  Your father died because HIS body obviously had SOMETHING wrong with it.  you had no control over that. 

if you decide to carry this grief and guilt with you the rest of your life, you will do a grave injustice to the man who loved you and would want you to have a fulfilling, happy life.  honor him so by doing just that.

Kim
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