What the Hell just Hapened to the Dumb DS vs RNY Post
Ms. Cal Culator
on 4/17/11 12:04 pm - Tuvalu
on 4/17/11 12:04 pm - Tuvalu
On April 17, 2011 at 6:00 PM Pacific Time, acbbrown wrote:
It's a shame that these kind of responses pop up on here. Even if you don't like her, and believe what you said, is there really such a compelling reason to write this? It's kind of sad - just ignore posts if you dont like it, but this is kind of extreme. This reminds me of junior high play ground - and you just sank to that level. Way to go. GREAT!!! So your point in this post where you are responding to a post you didn't like is to tell someone else to ignore posts that THEY don't like...just as you were NOT able to do your very own self.
That's one of my favorite kinds of posts, so thanks.
Until that point I had been completely respectful of both sides. I never once piped in on some of the much more intense "wars." I didn't even when I was, kind of, offended about some of the stuff said, not just what the DSer's said, but about everybody being so mean to each other!!! I don't understand it. I guess I was raised not to scream and fight, when it won't get you anywhere. My OP and aforementioned posts where really in good fun. If I had thought that some joking around name calling would start something that is as meaningless as this, I truly never would have posted it.
I have never blocked anyone or gave anyone any reason to block me, maybe until now. Even after being called a ***** and having masturbation come up somehow, I still, will not block anybody. I just didn't know why I would have been blocked. Then someone told me that she was a serial blocker and she probably blocked me because I had nothing, that she thought was interesting, to say. After that, I understood, because, to many, I suppose I was percieved as boring, as I only responded supportively and with facts that I was aware of. I decided to go out on a limb and post something out of the ordinary for me, as I do not post items that TRY to start crap, unlike alot of members on OH.
I have never blocked anyone or gave anyone any reason to block me, maybe until now. Even after being called a ***** and having masturbation come up somehow, I still, will not block anybody. I just didn't know why I would have been blocked. Then someone told me that she was a serial blocker and she probably blocked me because I had nothing, that she thought was interesting, to say. After that, I understood, because, to many, I suppose I was percieved as boring, as I only responded supportively and with facts that I was aware of. I decided to go out on a limb and post something out of the ordinary for me, as I do not post items that TRY to start crap, unlike alot of members on OH.
Ms. Cal Culator
on 4/17/11 12:24 pm - Tuvalu
on 4/17/11 12:24 pm - Tuvalu
Oh...and since this is apparently difficult to follow...someone offered photos of genetalia for your entertainment and THAT'S when my my mind went to masturbation, as you seemed to be looking for entertainement that was not too intellectually challenging. It all just fell into place.
Oh, it's not difficult to follow at all. My point about the masturbation included the whole start of it, when it first turned into someone making the remark about looking at genetalia and then turned to masturbation. That statement, by me, was not directed solely at you, but to the whole point I was trying to make about about these things getting so out of hand that everyone's point is missed and nobody wins. Exactly like what has happened here. You all can keep berating me and calling me names, some of which are none too newly used by individuals on this site, but what does it actually do in the grand scheme of things? Nothing. So, I am sorry that you all feel that I am of questionable intelligence, but when people look back at these posts, are they really going to think that people discussing genitalia, masturbation, ****s, ect, are extremely intelligent and mature adults? I find that you all (and you know who you are) are just abusive people that obviously get your kicks out of over dramatizing things and then blaming it on others. If I said half of the things that you all say, not just to me, but many, many others, I would not be able to, in good conscience, sleep at night. So, as of this post, all of you can type your brains out, thinking of all the nasty things you can say to me, and I will not respond to any of them. Maybe it will help, get it out of your systems for the next person who posts something that you feel, you can tear down and spit back at them. All of you have a good night and thank you.
Jesus what is wrong with everybody. Cut him some slack if you feel so compelled. I don't. He's a divisive **** and I was one of many who tried to dialogue with him. Quit turning on each other. Susan
Obesity Help Support Group Leader - The Woman Warrior
286/170/131 (starting/goal/current)
LBL - 10-30-08, brachioplasty/augmentation 2-26-09, medial thigh lift 3-16-09
Plastics - Dr. Joseph Fodero
286/170/131 (starting/goal/current)
LBL - 10-30-08, brachioplasty/augmentation 2-26-09, medial thigh lift 3-16-09
Plastics - Dr. Joseph Fodero
286/170/140/131 (starting weight/goal/surgeons goal/current)
LBL 10-30-08 - Joseph Fodero
Brachioplasty/Breast Augmentation - 2=24-09
Yeah, I agree. He has made these kind of posts many times before without the benefit of medication to blame it on. Last time he blamed it on his RH. I guess that excuse is out the window now. He just wants to cause trouble. He knows what the reaction will be and he enjoys it. Maybe it gives him some sort of power. Or maybe he just wants his new DS friends to like him for being so anti RNY.
For the record, I am on a boatload of pain killers, too, from my surgery 2 days ago, but I don't use that as an excuse to be intentionally offending to any group of people.
You notice that before the thread got pulled he hadn't bothered to make one more post after the first one? Just hit and run. Maybe he didn't expect that people would be as unforgiving as they were because of his age and new post op status.
For the record, I am on a boatload of pain killers, too, from my surgery 2 days ago, but I don't use that as an excuse to be intentionally offending to any group of people.
You notice that before the thread got pulled he hadn't bothered to make one more post after the first one? Just hit and run. Maybe he didn't expect that people would be as unforgiving as they were because of his age and new post op status.
WLS 10/28/2002 Revision 7/23/2010
High Weight (2002) 240 Revision Weight (2010) 220 Current Weight 115.
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