New "skinny" problem

I'm freakin pissed!
I'm at my fave bar-resturaunt at the casino....a couple to my right AND left. Conversation starts, fun, lively...both women shut me DOWN!
You KNOW what I mean.
I DID/SAID NOTHING!

WTF!
I talked about my husband and kids (when I got the vibe). But really?
Not fair!

Not sure how to process this....
It HURT my feelings. I'm freakin harmless!
Did I just say that out loud?

(Sigh
Somebody please tell me there are horemones at play.
(Sigh)

People are judgemental and mean no matter how much you weigh.
(Sigh)

Donna

 Sorry, but I don't really know what you mean?  In any event, sorry to hear you were mistreated, that is never pleasant!

 I take it as a compliment, I am so hot that I intimidate them 

Oh, I don't even know how to process this. Still. and it's been hours.
Ruined my whole night.

It was blatent jealousy. It was not justified. It was just plain mean.
I was treated much better when I was fat.

It still has my knickers in a twist. (sigh)
Sorry to muddy the boards with this crap.

Did they say something? Or just turn away? Either way they were not worth your time. Don't worry about it some people are worth the effort and some are not.

Nope no idea what you mean actually.  I don't butt into other peoples conversations so I cannot comment on that, maybe they were trying to send you the mind your own business and don't be rude vibe.  If so I guess it missed.

It may not have been you but the reactions of the husbands that made the  other women on defensive.
BTW: I used to have a GF who started flirting with my guy right in front of me.  I don't thing she realized what she was doing - but some of the things she was doing just pissed me off. Now - I am not a jealous person - or possessive - and that situation made me and my BF uncomfortable, so now we are not longer socializing.  
I know I can be a flirt - and I have to really watch myself when I am out.   What was fine when I was more friendly like that when I was  "my fat self" is not so "fine" when I am rather skinny ...and men react very differently to me now, so I do need to be double careful.

 Huh?

aa, who are you "huh"ing? Maybe I can 'splain.

I have talked to people who know me well about this. And basically they told me that it wasnt what I said or did but more how differently it is perceived.
I really did not do anything wrong. Even in hind sight I couldn't have done anything differently other than to have ignored them when they started conversation with me. Which is out of my nature.
I am married, I wear my very large prominant wedding ring proudlly (now that it's been re-sized)
I ALWAYS mention and talk about my husband when men are present.
I love AND respect my husband.
I am friendly but I am also an open book. No hidden agendas.

Now that I am "skinny" The world sees the same old me differently (according to my daughter and sister in law" and that is the worlds problem NOT MINE.

FOR THOSE THAT KNOW AND LOVE ME kNOW THAT I AM OUTGOING AND FRIENDLY and always will be.

I will NOT repeat what was said during the inter-change last night. It was petty and mean, brief and baseless.

It was brought on by other peoples insecurities and for that I feel sad.
I will be more aware of perceptions from now on for sure because mean people suck and can really kill your buzz.

On a good note? I went back to the casino ths morning and KICKED BUTT in a cash game. Also met a fellow sleever from CT there. Going to see if the hubs wants to meet up with him this weekend over some poker. They can compare VSG. Notes "man style".

BTW...when I'm really angry I dont articulate well...LOL (sigh)

Cheers
Donna