Offended but justified?

 That was totally WRONG.  When you love someone it's for better/worse, richer/poorer, and sickness/health and that includes skinny, fat, pretty, and ugly.  It not what's on the outside that counts.  It's what is on the inside!! 

As we all can share with you what to do, only you know in your heart what needs to be done for yourself and your family. I went through a similar situation with my EX HUSBAND. Once someone thinks this way it will never change, hence my EX! All the best and you are a strong woman and know your answer its just a matter you needed a sounding board! Xoxox thoughts are with you!

Wow. What an ass. I hope you have decided to move on. You have to believe that you deserve better. And you do.

Dump him. Now. Don't wait. He is clearly not the right person for you. The right person accepts you completely from past, present and future.

 I am so sorry that happened to you. Those of us who have neen taunted and starred at and laughed at know the pain. The scars never leave, If it were me, he would be out of my life in a nano second. The good news is that he left no doubt how he really feels. Your children certainly don't deserve to be exposed to a bully like him. 

We deserve to be with someone who loves us unconditionally. It is your decision, and it involves not just yoû but your adoreable children.  Kick him to the curb ... he doesn't deserve you. 


Thank you for sharing. You can see that your experience has aroused many emotions. Ugh, I hate to hear about the cruelty but it is out there. Don't give him the satisfaction to further discuss, he will try to get you back in his good graces only to set you up. Kick his a__ __ to the curb and never look back.

I was telling my husband about your story and he was actually pissed off for you!  He is wonderful and supportive and informed me that your guy's reaction SHOULD HAVE BEEN "honey I am so proud of what you have accomplished!"  He says you need to kick this guy to the curb and I agree wholeheartedly.
We know what we looked like pre surgery.  We don't need someone else to emphasize it for us.  It's not like we woke up one morning and looked in the mirror and said OMG I'm Fat!!  We went through years of anguish and torture with our own body image and our own self esteem and health issues.  now is the time to celebrate, not the time to dwell on what was.
The fact that you had the courage to show him the before pics says a lot about your character, his reaction shows a lot about his.

He is a moron. I hope you dumped him.  I would not let someone like that near my cat (I don't have children). But I would never allow a person like that to ge close to my family or friends. 

He is a LOOSER 
At least you found that out now and not in teh future...

He wasn't an ass he is an ass. Leopard's don't change their stripes. This guy is a tool box.

If this guy mentions that your kids are 'chunky' now do you think his criticisms will be any less of them if this develops? Moreso, not just for yourself and the negative and hurtful comments he made, think about having your kids around this guy.  

Lose this creep. Quickly.

DUMP, DUMP, DUMP him!!   He will not be nice to your kids and he will not be nice to you.