My Hair is Falling Out From Stress Life Post Op!

I jes noticed my hair removing itself by the ( mini) handful politely from my scalp . This hasnt happened since RNY surgery 14 years ago .

I DONT think my lifes that stressful now - yes Im semi homeless either sleeping in a car or on a half inflated air mattress in an unheated electricity less water free paid for home where at least I can lock the door behind me.

. Im applying for NYC apartments - a very tough process .

For six long years every time I closed my eyes the looming foreclosure on my beloved home kept me from sleeping .

For a year and a half now thats been gone but a local politician is trying to steal my paid off home by threatening immediate demolition if its not sold to one of his builder friends in thirty days ... Im working as hard as I can to prune the hedges, cut the lawn , cut down the phragmites ( Australian imported invasive weeds that grow 12 feet tall in no time in water- dense shoreline environments )

Struggling to get insurance payment to start work.

92 and 91 year old Parents disappeared in Europe ( probably went mountain hiking w Mom on a walker knowing lifelong athletic them lol... )

In reality they probably either took a weeklong bus tour somewhere or went to a hot springs resort - but never thought to call me.

Any post op frustrations in YOUR current life ?

Dont get m wrong - Im profoundly grateful to HAVE a life ... jes a little frustrated w making every mistake possible many years post op.