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Topic: RE: I am getting tired of the complications...when will it stop
I would love to come on here and say that they do - but for some of us who have WLS - the complications never stop.
I am a little over 4 years - first year was really rough, next two were fine and I thought I was home free. Unfortunately, in the past year I have been hospitalized 3 times also - 2 of the times w/ severe internal bleeding due to ulcers at the reconnection site. (Which I never knew could occur, but the gastronlogist who saw me says he sees a lot of them in wls patients.)
There are some sites for people w/ complications. (NOT OH) I will give you the address if you want it - just email me if you do.
Anne
I am a little over 4 years - first year was really rough, next two were fine and I thought I was home free. Unfortunately, in the past year I have been hospitalized 3 times also - 2 of the times w/ severe internal bleeding due to ulcers at the reconnection site. (Which I never knew could occur, but the gastronlogist who saw me says he sees a lot of them in wls patients.)
There are some sites for people w/ complications. (NOT OH) I will give you the address if you want it - just email me if you do.
Anne
Topic: RE: I am getting tired of the complications...when will it stop
Thanks for your kind words. I guess misery loves company LOL! Just kidding! I'm sorry your going through such a tough time. I thought the begining was sooo hard too. But this most recent setback just takes the cake. I hope for your sake the journey gets easier... not harder...Best wishes sent your way
Topic: RE: I am getting tired of the complications...when will it stop
I will be 5 weeks out tomorrow and I was doing great at first but the past few days since 3 days after I could start soft foods I have been getting really sick. The stomach bug has been going around and I am not sure if it is that or if it is from the surgery but I have found myself crying as I dry heave yet again and wondering what have I done to myself so even though it is not the same I can relate somewhat.
Topic: I am getting tired of the complications...when will it stop
I am one year post RNY... have been hospitalized this year three times with serious complications ...does it ever stop??
I am startng to feel regret on some level and it scares me. I certainly didn't imagine or plan for it to turn out this way. I feel sad and lonely with my feelings and am ashamed to admit them...being brutally honest right now. On the other hand I had a death sentence waiting for me ...I had alot of health risks and I certainly don't think I could have lost this weight on my own. All that said I am in a funk and a part of me wishes I could slip back into my old cocoon of protection. Can anyone relate?
I am startng to feel regret on some level and it scares me. I certainly didn't imagine or plan for it to turn out this way. I feel sad and lonely with my feelings and am ashamed to admit them...being brutally honest right now. On the other hand I had a death sentence waiting for me ...I had alot of health risks and I certainly don't think I could have lost this weight on my own. All that said I am in a funk and a part of me wishes I could slip back into my old cocoon of protection. Can anyone relate?
Topic: RE: Antidepressants and Gastric Band
I don't know if the band affects your meds, it just takes them longer to absorb I believe. But.. in my experience, it was the anaesthesia that affected my moods extremely for about 2 months post op. I hadn't had surgery since I was a kid and was not prepared for that. I just figured it stayed in your body for a day or two, but it really can mess with your hormones is my understanding. (I also had neck and back pain, for just about a week though, as the gas they fill you with during surgery floats upward apparently.)
I am bipolar and had been stable a long time prior to surgery. Two months after, even though I'd lost about 40 # by then, I was suicidally depressed. I don't know that this happens to everybody, but my therapist said she has seen it several times. Just as an fyi.. so you can be prepared for this and know what may be happening. Good luck to you.
Topic: RE: Anyone else out there that isn't enjoying their WLS?
Hey,
I was just telling my mother yesterday if I had to do it again, I wouldn't. I am 7 years out. Lost 170lbs quickly. Followed the rules and now I am more unhealthy then before surgery. I have chronic pain from bone loss, some days cannot even get out of bed. This from lack of calcium which I take supplements for but cannot absorb. So I am sick all of the time, never ever feel good. Like something is wrong but what? I had to send my son with his father because I am physically unable to care for him. Imagine telling your 14 year old you can't take care of him. I have lost weight yeah, but I lost so much more and it was not worth it. I too am at the doctor on a weekly basis. Pain meds which keep me from hurting as bad but unable to function as a person. Xanax because I have panic attacks daily. This was not what I expected and I was never told of these possibilities.
I was just telling my mother yesterday if I had to do it again, I wouldn't. I am 7 years out. Lost 170lbs quickly. Followed the rules and now I am more unhealthy then before surgery. I have chronic pain from bone loss, some days cannot even get out of bed. This from lack of calcium which I take supplements for but cannot absorb. So I am sick all of the time, never ever feel good. Like something is wrong but what? I had to send my son with his father because I am physically unable to care for him. Imagine telling your 14 year old you can't take care of him. I have lost weight yeah, but I lost so much more and it was not worth it. I too am at the doctor on a weekly basis. Pain meds which keep me from hurting as bad but unable to function as a person. Xanax because I have panic attacks daily. This was not what I expected and I was never told of these possibilities.
Topic: RE: I am Ron lester the actor that was 508lbs. You might know me from Varsity Blues
I saw your story on the Insider (I think) a few months ago. Obesity is an unfortunate situation for everyone, regardless of celebrity. I applaud you for being brave enough to offer your support to us. As a 3 month post op and down 67 pounds, I feel better than I have in about a year. I'm only 31 and I have extended my life for a long time. Kudos to you!
Topic: GA MEET N GREET
We are having a Holiday Meet N Greet on the GA forum for pre and post op patients. All surgeries are welcomed, as I believe those of you who know what you are getting can help those on the fence.
Friday, Dec. 12th 2008 6:15pm Cheese Cake Factory Buckhead
We are doing a White Elephant Gift Exchange with a 10.00 limit
PLEASE VISIT GA FORUM TO RSVP
Topic: RE: 12 days out- Regrets
hi I did have the surgery to better my qualty of life- but right now the effects and complications i am having is not worth it-
Topic: RE: hungry, depressed, stumped
You should get checked out by your Dr. if you are having these kinds of problems. It could be ulcers or a tight stoma. But stop obsessing about holiday foods and what on earth you are going to do for the holidays. I have been on several of the boards tonight, the night before Thanksgiving, and the common them seems to be "poor me, what will I do without my holiday favorite foods?" It is just food for Pete's sake-there is more to the holidays than that, and it is only one holiday season out of your whole life. Next year will be much better, and you will feel great and look great too! Just let yourself heal and just enjoy being with family and friends at this time of the year. Eat to live, don't live to eat.
-Wanda
-Wanda
Highest -380 Surgery- 345 Goal- 150 Current-150 5 ft. 8 in.
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