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TinkL *.
on 7/12/10 1:02 pm - Columbia, SC
Topic: RE: How bad before retirement or disability?
Thanks.  It's hard to figure out.  Good one day, really bad another.

I guess the pain will tell me when it's time.

Tink
Hislady
on 7/12/10 12:41 pm - Vancouver, WA
Topic: RE: How bad before retirement or disability?
I don't really havce any answers but I know a few folks have gotten disability but they usually have to really fight to get it. Hopefully some of the others here will have some answers for you. I'm very fortunate in that I haven't had to work for over 20 years altho that also means I can't get any kind of disability either. If you feel it is too difficult for you then I would say that it is time to think about retiring. I wish you the best!
TinkL *.
on 7/12/10 6:35 am - Columbia, SC
Topic: How bad before retirement or disability?


When and how do you decide that it hurts to badly to continue working? 

What kind of problems made the decision inevitable?

How many drugs can you take and keep going?

I know the answers have to be generic, all of us is different. 

Currently 60 mg Cymbalta 2x day

300 mg Lyrica 2 x day
5/500 Vicodin as needed every 6 hours.

Restless legs, fingers feel like arthritis is attacking.  I also get shocks going through my arms constantly.

My job - IT - Business Analyst - Lead.  I am the brains of the software.  When it goes wrong, I need to figure out what/why/how and lead the programmer in making changes.  Then lead a BA to test and prepare for delivery to a client.

The thinking - sometimes thunderbolts to the temples.
The typing - stiff fingers and hurting most of the time.
The getting to work - rough, even the handicapped parking is half a football field from the door.
I'm constantly kneading my hands to bring circulation back or to ease sore muscles and joints.

Am I still functional?  

 

Thanks guys.

 

Tink

 

TinkL *.
on 7/12/10 6:24 am - Columbia, SC
Topic: RE: Meniere's Disease?
My husband has Meniere's Disease.  That coupled with my fibro is causing us to rethink our retirement plans.   Maybe we need to be around family for those times one or the other of us is basically incapacitated.

Tink
TinkL *.
on 7/12/10 5:45 am - Columbia, SC
Topic: RE: 60+

I'll be 61 in the fall.  I had my RNY 4 years ago in the fall.   Yes, I was an older patient.  The surgeon said, it's not your chronological age, it's your mental age.

Because of all my co morbids, he doubled the chance of complications for me.  I haven't had any.  We think this fibro has nothing to do with the RNY as I was showing mild symptoms 15 years ago.

Just make sure - because our metabolism is so slow at this age - that you not add carbs until you absolutely must.   

Tink

TinkL *.
on 7/12/10 5:26 am - Columbia, SC
Topic: RE: Wondering how my fibro sisters are
After our killer cold winter for the south, I thought summer would be a little kinder.

100's and high humidity is keeping me in a constant bout of flu like symptoms and headaches to die from.    Wondering how I will make it working until retirement age.

Ouch.  Gentle hugs to all.
Tink
(deactivated member)
on 7/11/10 10:14 am
Topic: RE: 60+

I see you wrote this about a month ago,  hope you are still checking this sites.

I can answer that question.  I'm 63 and will be 64 in about two weeks.  I'm giving the Sleeve to myself for my birthday.  I agree with you that our age is a factor which needs to be worked in to our decision.  I'm in very good health, but can definitely tell that the weight I've put on the past 20 years is hurting me.But the way I look at it is that …we have about 20 good years left.  Why in the word do we want to sit around and let the world go by.  Acting like a granny when our minds are full of energy?We had our cake, breads, big chunks of meat and all the food at one sitting we could stand. Will I miss that… Dam Straight… but will I miss getting into a size 18 and barely buttoning my jeans. NOT on YOUR LIFE..My surgery is scheduled for next Saturday  about 6 hours from me.  Frightened… yep!... but enough to stop me.  NOPE… it may be the dumbest thing I have ever done, but my health is getting worse daily…. that is what I need to tell myself and hopefully all my friends here will also tell me. 

 

Hislady
on 7/11/10 5:18 am - Vancouver, WA
Topic: RE: Wondering how my fibro sisters are
Well my fibro is pretty good cause I've been confined to bed for 6 weeks after foot surgery so I don't move around enough for it to hurt! We've had unseasonably HOT weather up in the 90's which is miserable, but thankfully we do have AC.All in all it could be worse I guess. Gentle hugs back to ya!
MainePam
on 7/11/10 4:45 am - Bucksport, ME
Topic: RE: Meniere's Disease?
I was offically diag with Meinere's dis in 1982, fibro in 1995.BUT I have always had them both I think just sometimes worse than others.
I had not had severe Vertigo for years and this past April I had a shoulder replacement and my vertigo was horrible for over a month...I had to take dramine 3-4 times a day it seems better now. But the worse part is to never know when it will act up.
MainePam
on 7/11/10 4:39 am - Bucksport, ME
Topic: Wondering how my fibro sisters are
Two rainy days and this high humidity is killing me.
My shoulder replacement in April has really done a job on me!!!
The cataract surgery both eyes June. I wonder why I hurt and am depressed????????
Life as you all know turns into a constant battle.Even for the little things....
How are all of you doing
gentle hugs to all
Pam
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