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schenwhit
on 1/30/12 5:04 am - long Island, NY
Topic: RE: VSG 12/09 regained & starting over looking for similar penpals
 Hi, I'm in north carolina but don't mind corresponding my email address is [email protected] or [email protected].

I had surgery march 2010, and have been snacking and have gained 15 pounds.  I do walk and get plenty of exercise but it just keeps creeping.
Nicole Schen-Whit    
How could you have such a good life like me if there wasn't a God directing?
            
schenwhit
on 1/30/12 5:01 am - long Island, NY
Topic: Fayetteville, NC Pen Pals
 I am looking for a penpal for any in fayetteville, NC area.  I had surgery in NY and moved back to NC in Sept 2010, so would like to be able to get pen pal or support groups in the area.
Nicole Schen-Whit    
How could you have such a good life like me if there wasn't a God directing?
            
shay_rector
on 1/30/12 2:18 am - Virginia Beach, VA
Topic: Looking for pen pal
In the process of getting insurance approval for VSG! Looking for others on this journey to correspond with.
    
karafedak
on 1/29/12 8:31 am - Milford, CT
Topic: RE: looking for a pen pal from CT
Hi Dan,
    I live in CT and had gb in Feb 05. Who was your doctor? I had Ralph Crumb in Norwalk. I myself have been doing great up till last May where I started gaining weight. I had been fine for the past 6 years until that point. Now, i've gained 35 lbs and want to jump out of my skin because of it. Can you tell me about how you're getting the lapband after gb? i didn't know they could do that?!

Kara
liz B.
on 1/27/12 5:49 am
Adjustable Gastric Band on 03/21/12
Topic: looking for a pen pal from CT
 hi i'm looking for a pen pal from CT, or anyone who has had a gastric bypass and switched over to the lapband, i've regained my weight and now i'm looking forward to having the lapband to get back on track, i had my gb surgery in 05, i will be having the lb in march of this year.
 Babyface45    
MaMaMaRTiNeZz
on 1/25/12 5:58 am - Los Angeles, CA
RNY on 11/01/12
Topic: LOS ANGELES CHICKS...
HI! I am from notorious Los Angeles LOL, the City of Angels and Big Dreams and looking for a pen pal of sorts. No snail mail but emails and etc. I'm 25 and into makeup, fashion, and going out. Typical I know but looking for girls my age who are nearing surgery (RNY) or newly pre-op. Let me know if you are interested in being my GB Buddy

              NOTHING tastes as GOOD as SKINNY FEELS...

 Starting Pre-Op Weight: 305     Weight On Day of Surgery: 297 

  
          
                    

    

worleybird67
on 1/25/12 5:55 am - OH
Topic: Looking for Pen Pal from Ohio....close to Dayton, Ohio would be great!!!
I am awaiting approval from the insurance company for a VSG.  I am from the Dayton, Ohio area would love to find someone close that I could go through this journey with and become pen pals.  If you are interested, let me know and we can share information and get to know each other better.  I am a married 44 year old female with a 21 year old son and an 8 year old daughter to live for, as well as living for myself!!!!!

Thanks
BrandNewMeIn2012
on 1/24/12 1:53 am - Branchburg, NJ
Topic: RE: PCOS Pre-Op and getting nervous...anyone out there? :)
Cora, thanks so much!!! You just made me feel loads better about this whole thing! In answer to your question, yes, I've been on Metformin since 2006, and the max dose (2000mg/day) for the past two years. It didn't do anything for my weight, until about a year ago when my endo added an injectable called Victoza to the mix. It helps with the extra sugars naturally present in your food, so it takes some of the stress off of the insulin resistance from the PCOS. Between that and a dietician, I lost 30 pounds. But my weight in general is so stubborn, and has been my whole life (since age 7) that I decided the RNY was the way to go---it would help my body make better use of all the dietary/exercise changes I put in place.
Congrats on your baby!! That is a MAJOR accomplishment for we PCOSers, and a wonderful part of life that I'm glad you didn't have to give up. Did you have a boy or a girl? How old is baby now? (They're always the baby, even when they're my age, as my mom constantly tells me ;)  )
You're absolutely right about soda, and that's one worry I don't have---I have NEVER been a soda drinker, jus****er all the way. And it's great to know that there will actually be times that I don't want food--such a nice alternative to always feeling hungry!! Do you find that fat in food is a problem for dumping, or just sugar--i.e., if you want to eat something baked, is it okay as long as it's made with Splenda-type substitute, or does it still get you because of the eggs/oil/shortening it might contain? As you can tell, I'm not really fond of throwing up or being in pain, so I'm trying to learn now how to avoid that pleasant experience...LOL
If you get the chance, please post back. I'd love to know more about what life is like on the Other Side of surgery! :)
Cora Elizabeth W.
on 1/23/12 12:31 pm - Baldwin, KS
Topic: Looking for friends/accountability partners and +8 years post ops!

Hello All,
    So, I am back.  :o)  Boy things have changed A LOT since this website first started up.  I like the changes, but it seems harder to connect at times with folks.  I am hoping to meet some people that can help me get back on track, and start losing weight again. I have maintained my current weight for about a year now, (which is what I weighed back in 2002? I think..) Anyways, that is still too much for my liking, I need to lose about another 100.  I am a RNY gastric patient.  11 1/2 years post op.  I had surgery when I was 18, I weighed 407 pounds day of surgery, at my heightest weight...420ish.  I got down to about 187.  Then, I regained about 100 back, over the years.  Life happens, always does, got married, had a baby, etc.  It has been good though!  Never any regrets! 
     So, I am looking for some folks, I dont care how old, post op. pre op, male, female, etc.  I am not picky.  :o)  Share hardships and challenges we are facing, share in joys, and accomplishments.  Providing encouragement, that sort of thing.  Oh, and I love opinions. hehe, and sharing mine too! 
   Here is what I have been doing so far this year, I am in TOPS...(The group is not as "cool" as the other Tops group, but oh well...)  I have been working out using the Wii, everyday, so far.  My legs are KILLING me. I am TRYING to eat healthy.  I should use a food journal but I HATE writing stuff down.  I am also trying to take my vitamins again, as a post op, it is really important for us to do so.  Forever.  I would like to lose at least another 50 pounds, and then try and get pregnant again. I have a little one who is getting ready to turn 2.  Maybe I can get another little miracle...it could happen. maybe.... (Yes, I am married!)
     I would like this to happen this year.  It is doable.  But it will take dedication. lol, (The weight loss...not the baby making....  ;o)  )  I would love to hear back from others.  Hear about your journey.  What are your goals, dreams, etc.  If you haven't guessed by now, I am a talker, I am an open book.  I will answer any questions you have about weight loss surgery.  I did that quite a bit, when I first was starting out. lol, I was like a poster child, back then, since I was young, and it was still sort of new back then.  Best of luck to you all.  Hope to hear back from someone...anyone.
         ~Cora

Cora Elizabeth W.
on 1/23/12 12:05 pm - Baldwin, KS
Topic: RE: Scared, need someone to talk to
Congrats on getting a surgery date! Yea! As far as your family goes...they are probably a little bit worried for you, and maybe...jealous?  I come from a family where everybody is obese, or moridly overweight.  Nobody likes change, and anything unfamilar is scary.  It is okay to acknowlege those emotions, but dont let them control you.  yeah, easier said than done.  But...it is possible!  :o)  Seek out people that DO support you.  There are many here that can.  They either are, or have been in the exact same boat.
   As far as surgery goes...it isnt too bad.  :o) lol, I have had A LOT.  The weight loss surgery wasnt nearly so bad as like the one I had that is similar to a tummy tuck.  :o) BOTH are totally worth it though!  With the RNY, I lost over 200 pounds.  With the TT...25 pounds..(In 1 day!) They removed ALOT of extra skin.  After WLS, I also had to have my gallbladder taken out.  Then...I have also had a C-section.  So, you see, surgery really really isnt so bad.  :o) It is definately doable! 
    Oh, just in case you were interested, I am 11 1/2 years post op, from RNY.  I have never ever regreted it. For me, I was SOOO lucky to have it done when I was young, only 18 years old.  The only regret I have EVER heard from folks here, is that they DIDNT have surgery sooner.  lol, well, and there is a lot of debate over which WLS is best, but I think it depends on the person, not just the procedure. 
   Anyways, BEST of luck to you sweetie, I am sure you will be fine.  I will be thinking good thoughts for you.  Take care,
          ~Cora
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