eat more

Well yes, of course.  But that was sort of my point - I didn't see anything harsh about what she wrote. ?

I still can't stop myself from laughing at you taking her comments as harsh.  She is the friggen rainbow brigade IMO and she said nothing harsh at all even though she herself said it may be harsh.  It was all puppies and unicorns.

Honestly now if I could just take back the post and delete it all I would.

I appreciate all the advise I guess I just don't like being told I'm not following the rules or for someone to presume I'm not. That's what was harsh in my eyes. I had menus typed up a month in advance of my surgery and have 3 sets of measuring cups so I can make sure I am doing it all correctly.

My question was poorly written with the "Why shouldn't I?" because I was looking for an answer that would explain why I am not getting a "full sensation". Which is what I should have said. It was misleading.

Looking back now it's all getting out of hand. Obviously I was offended and I have offended someone else. Thus making this post counter productive to the advise we seek from each other and trying to keep positive.

My sincere apologies to those I've offended. I'll be sure to be more clear in my posts moving forward.

Sarah

Yeah, I think it was the "why shouldn't I" that got people rolling. Keep posting your questions!