Need to vent...
Hi Leeanne,
Sorry you are having these problems. Well, that he's having a problem. If your best isn't good enough for him, then there is something wrong.
Not defending him, but if this is a sudden change, maybe something drastic has happened in another part of his life that he's taking it out on you. If talking to him about it hasn't done anything, you could try counseling. Or if you need to move out, then you need to move out. Whatever your decision is, we'll be here.
Cathy
Sorry you are having these problems. Well, that he's having a problem. If your best isn't good enough for him, then there is something wrong.
Not defending him, but if this is a sudden change, maybe something drastic has happened in another part of his life that he's taking it out on you. If talking to him about it hasn't done anything, you could try counseling. Or if you need to move out, then you need to move out. Whatever your decision is, we'll be here.
Cathy
Hi Leanne,
Sorry to hear you are going through this.. -
Relationships are never easy... it takes a constant effort on both sides to make it work.. and when only one person is making that effort.. this is where the struggles and battles usually begin..
like some of the other posters have said.. take the time to weigh the situation.. determine what is right for you.. what you are willing to accept, and what you are not.. - then make your decision..
I agree that something may be happening with him which may have some effect on his behavior.. however... this is definately NOT an excuse for him to treat you poorly!!
You are strong, you are beautiful... you dont need anyone to bring you down!..
Whatever your decision, just know we are here for you...
Gee..
Sorry to hear you are going through this.. -
Relationships are never easy... it takes a constant effort on both sides to make it work.. and when only one person is making that effort.. this is where the struggles and battles usually begin..
like some of the other posters have said.. take the time to weigh the situation.. determine what is right for you.. what you are willing to accept, and what you are not.. - then make your decision..
I agree that something may be happening with him which may have some effect on his behavior.. however... this is definately NOT an excuse for him to treat you poorly!!
You are strong, you are beautiful... you dont need anyone to bring you down!..
Whatever your decision, just know we are here for you...
Gee..
Oh I am so sorry you are having to deal with this. Relationships need to be mutually satisfying (sp?) and you deserve to be treated like the wonderful, beautiful, strong person you are.
I agree with the others, take some time, weigh out your options. Find someone to talk to - a councellor, a friend, your pastor/minister, - or even someone on the board. You need someone to listen to you, you will come to the answers once you hear yourself talk.
Best of luck - remember you deserve the best!
I agree with the others, take some time, weigh out your options. Find someone to talk to - a councellor, a friend, your pastor/minister, - or even someone on the board. You need someone to listen to you, you will come to the answers once you hear yourself talk.
Best of luck - remember you deserve the best!
Hi Leanne
You are an amazing woman just from the few times we have interacted I can tell. You don't deserve someone treating you bad. You should be treated like the princess you are. Anyone who treats you bad shouldn't be worth your time. Now that my Dr Phil lecture it over......lol.
Sometimes you have to wonder about the people we fall in love with. You always have to do what's right for you. Best of luck going thru this tough time.
You are an amazing woman just from the few times we have interacted I can tell. You don't deserve someone treating you bad. You should be treated like the princess you are. Anyone who treats you bad shouldn't be worth your time. Now that my Dr Phil lecture it over......lol.
Sometimes you have to wonder about the people we fall in love with. You always have to do what's right for you. Best of luck going thru this tough time.
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