Were or where did my Libido go

 *drools*  can't wait for the movie!

 me too although I do think that each movie should have brass poles up each isle with dancers on them to add a 3D like affect... 

OH Toni.... you have read my mind  

I completely agree with this recommendation

Haha.. That's right Toni B ! I can't wait to go see it

Thanks gals for the advice and for sympathizing. Love the "fifty shades of Hell ya"
I'll look into the visual stimulation. Literally.
It's just that I have no desire so I don't put much of an effort into it. I will keep trying.

For me I have always had a high sex drive...I found now that it's slightly higher...  Lets just say some time the hubby says ok relax and lets take a night off...lol  what man says that?!?!  BUT that being said like many other woman have stated try to look into things you can do alone. Movies/ masturbation.  Or what about even getting a nice little sexy outfit?!?!  Might boost you a little to just want to show it off.  Whatever you do just make sure you have fun ;)

 tehe.. I think our hubbys may know each other he is thankful for afternoon shift right now cause I'm asleep when he gets in..

 have your hormone levels checked, it could be related to the rapid weight loss.. or I dont know how old you are but it may be related to menopause 

 ah yes the old libido thing.....my input is this:  if one has to practice birth control then anything that inhibits the normal cycle of estrogen/progesteron,  the the libido takes the hit.  In my experience the birth control 'controlled' the libido as well as the conception.  It also killed my sex drive which was so frustrating for both of us.  Depo Provera is great in that you don't have to remember to take your pill but it kills everything else.  If you are seriously not wanting any more children or want to put that on hold for now I would suggest getting off Depo and using something else.  just sayin....