The sex question lol

We just took things slow at first. Honestly my stomach muscles were pulled extra tight and ******s did kinda hurt. After about 6 months, things seemed pretty much back to normal.

My husband was freaked by my pie crust incision. He did not want to touch me. I'm like pleeeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaassssssssssssssseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!

True confession, we tried before the 6 weeks and it hurt my abdo. Please wait.

Do you have a handheld shower massager? LOL

LOL! too funny I'm blushing lol!

Guilty pleasures - it is fun to talk about sex under the anonymity of an avatar! And gosh, I am glad someone finally brought up the topic!

Another true confession, I have been hypersexual since recovering from surgery.  

I guess my new body is a turn-on. I have worn out my husband and actually have him saying no.

Oh my gosh now I am blushing. It is a good thing we are all girls here.  

I hope none of the surgeons are reading this. 

Lol as long as its not with my parents or siblings I'm very open about sex. He's a power lifter/mma fighter so I doubt the incision will bother him. He already told me I just need to lay there and he'll do all the work haha. I may go down there this weekend, I need a break from my parents, so we'll see what happens.

I've always had an over active sex drive but it came back way quicker this time than after my rny!

Hahaha!

hmmm, a power lifter. I think I may be jealous. Lol

Haha it's not like that super cut jersey shore kind of body. It looks like he's just a bigger guy until you realize it's all muscle. Now if only I could change his communication skills lol. I never ended up seeing him this weekend because of it

Without all the skin flapping around, sex is so much better. I love walking around neked and the lights must always be on now. My bf did not want me to have plastic surgery. He loved me "as-is" and was worried about my safety but afterwards when he saw how much more comfortable I was with my body, he knew it was the right decision for me.

Have fun. but seriously, you may want to be on top until you are further out 

Same for me... my wonderful husband has always treated me as if I looked as good as a playboy centerfold. But now that I'm suddenly so much more confident I think he finally agrees that I really needed this for my emotional health.

That's awesome. He sounds wonderful. I have known my boyfriend 23 years now so he has literally loved me through thick and thin. He knows that things are MUCH better between us now that I am confident with myself. That definitely was not the case before I had plastics.